Sex During Pregnancy: Everything You Need to Know
Sex during pregnancy is no longer a taboo subject, and there is no reason to forego intimate moments with your partner while you wait for a little miracle together. In fact, these moments of closeness can strengthen the relationship and be an important source of relaxation. But there are always questions and uncertainties, especially from expectant fathers: Can the baby feel the movements during sex ? Or even be hurt by it?
Fortunately, the all-clear is there. The baby is well protected by the uterus and the amniotic fluid. Normal sexual intercourse poses no danger. Quite the opposite: the gentle movements during intercourse can even calm the baby and lull it to sleep, even if that may sound unusual at first. If the baby feels uncomfortable or finds the movements too strong, it will make itself known - by kicking, turning or increasing activity in the womb.
Changes in the body and what this means for sex
Pregnancy changes a woman's body in many ways. These changes are often challenging, not only physically but also emotionally. While the expectant mother has to get used to her new body, the partner also has to go through a period of adjustment. Some positions that worked well before pregnancy may no longer be comfortable due to the growing belly. It is therefore important to find out together which positions are comfortable and pleasant for both of you.
The rule here is: experiment and try things out ! The most important rule is that both partners feel comfortable. Communication is the key. Talk openly about what works for you and what is perhaps less pleasant. A tip: In our shop you will find practical aids, such as a sex pillow , which can help to slightly raise the woman's hips and thus make the act more pleasant. Various sex toys can also enrich your shared experience and help you to experience beautiful climaxes even during pregnancy.
Caution with certain pregnancy complications
Although sex during pregnancy is safe in most cases, there are situations in which caution is advised. It may be advisable to be more cautious during the first three months of pregnancy, especially if there has been a miscarriage in the past or if a premature birth is expected. In the case of multiple pregnancies, intermenstrual bleeding , infections or premature labor, the doctor should also be consulted before continuing with sexual intercourse. In such cases, it may be advisable to refrain from penetration and find alternative ways to enjoy closeness and intimacy.
Sensitivity and Desire During Pregnancy
During pregnancy, a woman's sensations often change dramatically. Many women report that their nipples and labia are particularly sensitive and that they feel touch more intensely. This can increase desire, but can also be perceived as unpleasant. Every body is different, and it is important to listen to the body's signals and to gently introduce your partner.
The high blood flow to the genitals during pregnancy can intensify the feeling of pleasure, but physical discomforts such as nausea or tiredness, especially in the first three months, can also affect the desire for sex. In the middle or at the end of pregnancy, some women may feel less attractive or flexible due to the growing belly. The most important thing in these moments is to support each other and accept the physical changes.
Sex at the end of pregnancy: a natural birth assistant?
Interestingly, sex in the last weeks of pregnancy can help induce labor. The man's sperm contains hormones that can help soften the cervix and induce labor. This can be a gentle and comfortable way to aid labor naturally.
Intimacy without Penetration: The Art of Relaxation
If you want to take it easy and not focus on penetration, there are many other ways to experience closeness and intimacy. On our site you will find a selection of scented and massage candles that create a relaxing atmosphere and are perfect for pampering the expectant mother. Blindfolds can intensify the senses and provide additional excitement. It's about finding moments of peace and relaxation together that bring you both closer together, without sex having to be the main focus.
Conclusion: Relax – the baby is safe!
In the end, as long as both partners feel comfortable and there are no medical reasons against it, you can enjoy your sex life during pregnancy in a relaxed manner. Your baby is well protected and will not suffer any harm. So enjoy the time together - it is valuable!
