Safewords & Aftercare – What Matters Most After BDSM Play
A lot gets written about safewords and too little about aftercare. Yet they are two halves of the same thing: one makes sure a scene ends in time, the other...
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Menopause & Sexuality – How Lubricants & Toys HelpMenopause & Sexuality – How Lubricants & Toys Help
In menopause, what usually changes about sex first is not desire but mechanics. Less oestrogen means the tissue gets thinner, less elastic and produces less moisture – regardless of how...
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Low Sexual Desire in Men – Causes & SolutionsLow Sexual Desire in Men – Causes & Solutions
There is a myth about men: that they always want to. The result is that low desire gets raised less often by men than by women – and is all...
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Erection Problems – What Really Helps (Without Medication)Erection Problems – What Really Helps (Without Medication)
Erection problems are more common than the silence around them suggests – and in most cases manageable. This post deliberately takes the route without medication: what lies behind it physically,...
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Which Vibrator for Beginners? – The 10 Best Starter ModelsWhich Vibrator for Beginners? – The 10 Best Starter Models
With a first vibrator, people usually ask the wrong question. What decides is not “which is best?” but which kind of stimulation suits you. The selection splits into a few...
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Sex Toys Under 30 Euros – The Best Budget ModelsSex Toys Under 30 Euros – The Best Budget Models
With sex toys, cheap does not automatically mean bad – but it does mean something was economised somewhere. The trick is knowing where economising is harmless and where it is...
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Valentine's Day Guide – The Best Sex Toys for CouplesValentine's Day Guide – The Best Sex Toys for Couples
A lot gets bought for Valentine's Day and little of it lands. That is rarely down to taste but to timing: a toy sitting on the table on an evening...
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Sex Toys as a Gift – Ideas for Her, Him & CouplesSex Toys as a Gift – Ideas for Her, Him & Couples
Giving a sex toy is trickier than almost any other present – because it is easily read as a comment. “You need this” is rarely the message intended. One single...
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An Erotic Wish List – How to Communicate What You WantAn Erotic Wish List – How to Communicate What You Want
Most couples do not talk about what they want because they cannot find the way in – not because they have nothing to say. A wish list solves exactly that:...
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Dominance & Submission – Roles, Rules & CommunicationDominance & Submission – Roles, Rules & Communication
Dominance and submission – D/s for short – is the part of BDSM that needs no toys at all. It is not about strikes or restraints but about one question:...
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Your First Sex Toy as a Couple – Step by StepYour First Sex Toy as a Couple – Step by Step
A first toy as a couple rarely fails because of the toy. It fails because of the situation around it: wrong moment, expectations too high, too little agreement. Get those...
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Bondage Tape & Bondage Sets – The Beginner's GuideBondage Tape & Bondage Sets – The Beginner's Guide
For beginners, bondage almost never fails on nerve – it fails on technique. A rope you cannot tie either sits too loose or cuts in, and then the evening is...
