Sex During Menstruation: Everything You Need to Know
Have you often wondered what it would be like to have sex with your partner during your period? Maybe you feel weak and are struggling with unpleasant period pains. And then the questions arise: Does my partner even want this? Is it hygienic? Can I get pregnant during my period?
The short answer is: Yes, sex during menstruation is completely okay! But of course there are a few points you should consider. In this blog post we answer the most important questions and give you tips on how you can enjoy this time without feeling uncomfortable.
Can I get pregnant during my period?
Although it may seem unlikely, it is possible to get pregnant during your period. Sperm can live in your uterus for up to seven days, meaning you could get pregnant in the days after sex if you ovulate earlier than expected. Therefore, contraception is important even during your period.
Sex during menstruation: taboo or hot topic?
Many women find the subject taboo. They worry that sex during menstruation will be a "bloody dilemma". But you can rest assured: on average, women only lose about 60 ml of blood during their entire period. That may sound like a lot, but it doesn't lead to scenes like you might see in films. However, you should be prepared for your partner's penis to get some blood.
Hygiene tips for sex during your period
To avoid unpleasant surprises, you can put a towel or blanket underneath you that you can wash straight away afterwards. Even better: use special sex pads, such as our washable sex mattresses , which have been specially developed for such moments.
It is also important that you do not wear a tampon during sexual intercourse - except for a so-called soft tampon. These special tampons can be used during sex, but should not be inserted immediately before, as they can dry out the vagina even more.
Communication is key
There's no need to be embarrassed about having sex during your period, but it's important that your partner knows you're on your period. Many women report that having sex during their period even helps relieve uncomfortable period pain. Some experience increased sexual desire during this time.
Alternative: Sex in the shower
If the thought of having sex during your period is uncomfortable for you, you can try it in the shower. This can make the situation seem less unhygienic and more relaxed. Water has a cleansing effect and creates a pleasant atmosphere.
It doesn't always have to be penetration
Sex during menstruation does not necessarily mean penetration. There are many other ways to enjoy intimacy. In our shop you will find a large selection of sex toys, such as lay-on vibrators, which can get you and your partner going in a completely different way.
Relaxation through massage products
You can also create a relaxed atmosphere with sensual massages. Our massage candles turn into fragrant, warm oil that you can use to gently massage your back or lower abdomen. This can not only have a calming effect, but also relieve your abdominal pain. But be careful: the massage oil is not suitable for the intimate area.
Conclusion: Just try it out
At the end of the day, it's up to you and your partner whether you want to try sex during menstruation. Many women report that they are more sensitive to touch and even experience more intense orgasms during this time. Every body is different, and only you can find out what feels good for you.
Dare to talk openly about the topic and discover together whether sex during menstruation is a pleasant experience for both of you!
