Bondage Set Spread ’Em Spreader Bar Set Black

Bondage Set Spread ’Em Spreader Bar Set Black ↔️

This set keeps arms and legs apart at once - two bars with two cuffs each. The appeal of a spreader bar lies less in the holding than in not being able to close: what is held open cannot be shut. The cuffs are lined with neoprene, which makes the difference between ten minutes and a session. When putting it on: cuffs first, then the bar, and the other way round when taking it off. It sits under bondage, under BDSM sex toys and in our fetish sex toys section.

✨ At a glance

• 🧵 Material: Metal, neoprene
• 🎨 Colour: Black
• ✅ Scope: Two bars with four cuffs
• ✅ Lining: Neoprene, against chafing
• ⚠️ Caution: Two fingers of room, never leave alone
• ⭐ Feature: Arms and legs at once

❓ FAQ

How tightly may someone be restrained?

Tightly enough that two fingers fit between the restraint and the skin. If the hand goes cold, numb or pale, it is too tight - release it at once. Never leave anyone restrained alone, and keep something to hand that can open a restraint quickly in an emergency.

What belongs discussed beforehand?

Limits and a safeword. A safeword is a word that is not part of the play and at which everything stops at once - no questions, no discussion. Along with an agreement on what is allowed in this session and what is not. Both are settled soberly and in advance, not in the middle of things. Anyone gagged needs a signal instead of a word.

How long do you hold a position like that?

Shorter than you think. Spread legs tire the inner thighs quickly, and what was comfortable at the start is hard work after ten minutes. Ask regularly and release the bar before it becomes uncomfortable.

What else belongs with it?

Everything that works with restricted movement: blindfolds, collars, connectors. The selection is under bondage, further cuffs under handcuffs.