Restraint Set Scandal Bondage Bar Red

Restraint Set Scandal Bondage Bar Red 🖤

The Bondage Bar from the Scandal collection by CalExotics is a bar in a red pattern with four fixed, lined cuffs with hook-and-loop fastening: two at the ends, two further in. This way wrists and ankles can be fixed to a single piece. The cuffs are lined inside with black plush, and the bar is trimmed in black along the edge. A spreader holds things apart, and that is a quite different kind of restraint from one that ties together: nothing is constricted, but nothing can close either. In practice that means two things. First, balance is gone; someone fixed like this cannot catch themselves, so start lying or sitting and not standing. Someone fixed bent forward quickly gets blood rushing to the head, so keep that position short. Second, the spread position works on the hips: as soon as they pull, release. What comes afterwards belongs to it as much as the game itself: untying, warming up, talking. It sits under bondage, under BDSM sex toys and in our fetish sex toys section.

✨ At a glance

• 🎨 Colour: Red
• 👉 Use: Two fingers must fit between restraint and skin
• ✅ Safety: Scissors within reach, never leave alone
• ⭐ Special feature: Four cuffs on one bar

❓ FAQ

How tightly do you restrain someone?

So that two fingers fit between restraint and skin. Numbness, tingling, cold fingers or toes are not part of the game but the signal to open up, immediately; that is not a judgement call.

How long can someone stay restrained?

Twenty minutes are more than enough to begin with, and never longer than both sides find relaxed. Whoever is restrained never stays alone in the room, not even briefly.

What has to be agreed first?

A safeword that is not part of the game and at which everything stops immediately, and a signal for when speaking is not possible, such as a hand dropping something. Plus a pair of safety scissors within reach, not in a drawer.

How is the spreader cared for?

Only wipe it with a damp cloth and let it air-dry; keep the hook-and-loop fastening closed meanwhile so that no lining gets caught in it. More on this under bondage.