Restraint Set Scandal Spreader Bar Space Bar Red

Restraint Set Scandal Spreader Bar Space Bar Red 🖤

The Spreader Bar from the Scandal collection by CalExotics is a straight bar in a red pattern with a black snap hook at each end and two silver-coloured rings in the middle, where further snap hooks can be clipped in; wrist or ankle cuffs are clipped onto the snap hooks at the ends. A spreader bar holds legs or arms apart, and that is a quite different kind of restraint from one that ties together: nothing is constricted, but nothing can close either. In practice that means two things. First, balance is gone; someone spread cannot catch themselves, so start lying or sitting and not standing. Second, the spread position works on the hips: as soon as they pull, release. What comes afterwards belongs to it as much as the game itself: untying, warming up, talking. It sits under bondage, under BDSM sex toys and in our fetish sex toys section.

✨ At a glance

• 🎨 Colour: Red
• 👉 Use: Two fingers must fit between restraint and skin
• ✅ Safety: Scissors within reach, never leave alone
• ⭐ Special feature: Snap hooks at both ends, rings in the middle

❓ FAQ

How tightly do you restrain someone?

So that two fingers fit between restraint and skin. Numbness, tingling, cold fingers or toes are not part of the game but the signal to open up, immediately; that is not a judgement call.

How long can someone stay restrained?

Twenty minutes are more than enough to begin with, and never longer than both sides find relaxed. Whoever is restrained never stays alone in the room, not even briefly.

What has to be agreed first?

A safeword that is not part of the game and at which everything stops immediately, and a signal for when speaking is not possible, such as a hand dropping something. Plus a pair of safety scissors within reach, not in a drawer.

How is the spreader bar cared for?

Wipe the bar with a damp cloth only and let it air-dry, keep snap hooks and rings dry. More on this under bondage.