Everything you need to know about sperm play – A guide for couples
Cum play is a topic that is often polarizing in the world of sexuality. For some couples, it is an exciting game that increases desire and passion, while for others it is more of a turn-off. The question of whether cum play should be part of your lovemaking depends entirely on your individual preferences and communication. In this post, we want to give you a comprehensive overview of this topic to help you make an informed decision.
What is sperm play?
Cum play refers to sexual practices in which sperm plays a central role. These games can range from simple ejaculation onto the body to more elaborate fantasies involving dominance, submission and mutual trust. Many couples find cum play particularly arousing because it increases feelings of intimacy and mutual trust.
While for some the idea of removing the ejaculate immediately is predominant (“get rid of that stuff quickly”), there are also those who appreciate the pleasure of feeling it on their body or seeing it flow. The appeal of such games often lies in the game of power and devotion, in which the roles of dominance and submission can be played out.
Communication is key
Before you incorporate cum play into your love life, it's important to communicate openly with each other. Everyone has different preferences and limits, so it's important to agree on them in advance. There are no "taboo zones" as long as both partners agree, but it's important to respect each other's wishes. It can be very exciting to try this kind of play spontaneously, but remember that your partner's consent should be the priority.
Safety during sperm games
A particularly important point when playing with sperm is safety. In general, sperm is harmless on the skin, but caution is advised if it gets into the eyes - it can burn painfully and should be rinsed out immediately.
It is also important to think about contraception when performing sperm play in the vagina or anally. There is a possibility of pregnancy if you do not use other contraception. In addition, sperm can transmit sexually transmitted diseases, so you should make sure that both partners are healthy.
The three most popular types of sperm games
There are different types of sperm games that can be varied depending on your preferences:
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Creampie: This is when the man ejaculates into his partner's vagina or anus. The excitement often lies in seeing the sperm run out again after the act.
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Snowballing: In this variant, the sperm is squirted into the mouth and then passed from one partner to the other through kisses. For some, this is a particularly intimate and exciting game.
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Cumshot: A cumshot involves the man ejaculating on various parts of the woman's body. The face, breasts, stomach or other erogenous zones can be the target, with the excitement being to feel and see the semen on the skin.
Extreme Variations of Sperm Games
In addition to the classic variants, there are also more extreme forms of sperm play that are more influenced by specific preferences. For example, some couples enjoy consuming the sperm or incorporating it into unusual scenarios such as eating. However, such practices should only be tried if both partners are absolutely sure and there is mutual consent.
Sperm and Health
Interestingly, there are also myths that semen can have a positive effect on health, such as relieving a sore throat. However, this has not been scientifically proven and the most important thing is that the partner is healthy and does not have any sexually transmitted diseases in order to avoid health risks.
Conclusion
Cum play can be an exciting and intimate experience for many couples, but it's definitely not for everyone. The most important thing is that you as a couple communicate openly, listen to each other, and only try what feels good for both of you. No one should feel pressured into anything, and there is no "right" or "wrong" way to experience sexuality.
Be open, talk to each other and only try out what you really want to do. If you want to learn more about topics like this, browse our blog and get inspired.
