📚 Sex Codes & Abbreviations: Your Comprehensive A-Z Lexicon
In the world of eroticism and sexuality, you constantly encounter abbreviations and codes – whether in personal ads, dating apps, BDSM communities, or when browsing sex toy categories. From BDSM to AO to NS: We explain all important sex codes in German and English, so you always know what's being talked about.
Whether you're new to the erotic world or just want to look up a term – this lexicon covers all common abbreviations you'll encounter in personal ads, forums, chats, and on fetish platforms. The list is regularly updated.
🇩🇪 German Sex Codes from A–Z
A – B
A = aktiv (active) – engaged, energetic
Arab. Küsse = Arab kisses – sperm kiss or anal kiss
AO = Alles ohne Kondom (everything without a condom)
AV = Analverkehr (anal sex)
AZF = Abzockfotze (rip-off bitch)
BBB = Bart, Bauch, Brille (beard, belly, glasses)
BDSM = Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, Sadism & Masochism – Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, Sadism & Masochism
Bi = bisexuell (bisexual) – sexually open to both genders
BIFI = Billigficker (cheap fucker)
BmB = Bitte mit Bild (please with picture)
BS = Bordsteinschwalbe (curb crawler) or “blood sports”
BV = Brustverkehr (breast sex) or Busenverkehr (also Spanish or TF)
BW = Brustwarzen (nipples)
BWP = Brustwarzenpiercing (nipple piercing)
bz, biz = bizarr (bizarre)
D – F
DA = Doppelt anal (double anal)
DD = Dildo, Doppeldildo (double dildo) or bra cup size
Deutsch = Missionarsstellung (missionary position)
dev = devot (submissive)
dom = dominant (dominant)
DP = Doppelpenetration (double penetration) (1 woman / 2 men, also SW)
DS = Dildospiele (dildo play)
DV = Doppelt vaginal (double vaginal)
DW, DWT = Damenwäsche / Damenwäscheträger (women's lingerie / lingerie wearer)
EL = Eierlecken (ball licking)
EM = Eiermassage (ball massage)
Engl. = Englisch (English) – the art of chastisement
exhib. = exhibitionistisch (exhibitionistic) – eager to show off
F = Französischer Sex (French sex) – oral sex
FAA = Finger-Anal aktiv (finger-anal active)
FAP = Finger-Anal passiv (finger-anal passive)
FE = Fußerotik (foot eroticism)
FF = Faustfick / Fistfuck – fisting
flag. = Flagellation – beaten with various aids
FM = Französisch mit Kondom (French with condom)
FN, FO = Französisch ohne Kondom (French without condom)
FT = Französisch total (French total) – blowjob without condom with swallowing
G – K
GB = Gesichtsbesamung (facial cumshot) (see also Bukkake)
GP = G-Punkt (G-spot)
GR = Griechischer Sex (Greek sex) – anal sex
GS = Gruppensex (group sex)
GV = Geschlechtsverkehr (sexual intercourse)
HE = Handentspannung (hand release)
HH = Haus- und Hotelbesuch (home and hotel visit) or Hobbyhure (hobby whore)
HM = Hodenmassage (testicle massage)
HV = Handverkehr (hand sex)
HWG = Häufig wechselnde Geschlechtspartner (frequently changing sexual partners)
IM = Intimmassage (intimate massage)
Ital. = Italienischer Sex (Italian sex) – armpit sex
KB = Körperbesamung (body cumshot)
KFI = Keine finanziellen Interessen (no financial interests)
KF, KG = Konfektionsgröße / Kleidergröße (clothing size)
KS = Kuschelsex (cuddle sex)
KV, NK = Kaviar / Naturkaviar (caviar / natural caviar) (stands for feces)
L – N
LH = Laufhaus (brothel)
LL = Lack & Leder (latex & leather)
mA = mit Aufnahme (with recording)
mV = mit Vollendung (with completion)
NS = Natursekt (natural champagne) – urine play (also: Golden Shower, WS)
NT = Nichttrinker/in (non-drinker)
O – R
„O“ = devote Frau (devoted woman) (named after the novel „The Story of O.“)
ÖM = Ölmassage (oil massage)
OV = Oralverkehr (oral sex)
OW = Oberweite (bust size)
p = passiv (passive) – rezeptiv (receptive) – receiving, accepting
PG = Puffgänger (brothel-goer)
PM = Penismassage (penis massage)
PPS = Parkplatzsex (parking lot sex)
PT = Petting or Partnertausch (partner swapping)
RS = Rollenspiele (role-playing)
RW = Reizwäsche (lingerie)
S – Z
SC = Swingerclub (swinger club)
SLP = Schamlippenpiercing (labia piercing)
SM = Sado-Maso (sado-masochism)
span. = Spanischer Sex (Spanish sex) – sex with breasts (also TF or BV)
SPZK = Spermazungenkusse (sperm tongue kisses)
SS = Spermaschlucken (sperm swallowing) or Straßenstrich (street prostitution)
SW = Sandwichsex (sandwich sex) (1 woman / 2 men, also DP)
T6 = Telefonsex (phone sex)
tbl. = tabulos (taboo-free)
TF = Tittenfick (titty fuck) (also Spanish or BV)
TR, TS = Transsexuell (transsexual)
TV = Transvestit (transvestite)
uner. = unerfahren (inexperienced)
VE = Verbalerotik (verbal eroticism)
VG = Vaginaler Geschlechtsverkehr (vaginal intercourse)
VO = Voyeur, Voyeurismus (voyeur, voyeurism)
WS = Wassersport (water sports) – urine play (also: NS, GS)
WX = Wixen (wanking) or Wichsen (wanking)
ZA = Zungenanal (tongue anal) (licking on/in the anus)
ZK = Zungenkuss (French kiss)
Numbers
69 = Sex position where partners simultaneously give each other oral pleasure
24/7 = 24 hours / 7 days a week
25/168/59 = Age / Height in cm / Weight in kg
🇬🇧 English Sex Codes and Terms
A – C
a2m, ATM = “ass to mouth” – from butt to mouth (oral directly after anal)
A-level = Synonym for anal sex
AC/DC = Synonym for bisexual
AR = “anal rimming” – tongue anal
ATF = “all time favorite” – absolute #1
B&D = “bondage & discipline” – bondage and disciplinary play
Barracuda = Synonym for rip-off bitch (AZF), see also ROB
BB = “bareback/barebacking” – sex without a condom
BBW = “big beautiful woman”
BD, BDG = “bondage” – bondage play
BJ = “blow job”
BLS = “ball licking and sucking”
BT = “ball torture”
BTBM = “body to body massage”
C = “covered” – sex with a condom
CAT = “coital alignment technique”
CBT = “cock ball torture”
CD = “crossdresser” – wearing clothing of the opposite gender
CFNM, CMNF = “Clothed female/man, naked man/female”
CIM = “cum in mouth”
CMT = “certified massage therapist” – professional masseuse
COB = “cum on body”
COF = “cum on face” – facial cumshot
CP = “creampie” – sperm runs out of vagina or anus
C6, CS = “cybersex” – virtual sex
CT = “cock torture”
D – G
DATY = “dining at the Y” – synonym for cunnilingus
DDE = “doesn’t do extras” – no extras on offer
DDG = “drop dead gorgeous”
DFK = “deep french kissing” – deep tongue kisses
DIY = “do it yourself”
DP = “double penetration”
DQ = “drag queen” – man in women's clothing
DS = “doggy style” – doggy style sex position
DT = “deep throat” – penis deep into the throat
ESP = “extra service provider” – with extras on offer
FA = “fat admirer” – admirer of voluptuous bodies
ff = “female female” – two women together
FIV = “finger in vagina”
FOV = “finger outside vagina”
French = Oral sex
French without = Blowjob without condom
FS = “full service” or “face sitting”
GF6, GFS = “girlfriend sex” – sex with girlfriend/lover
Greek = Greek – anal sex
GILF = “granny I’d like to fuck” – hot older woman over 50
GND = “girl next door”
GS = “golden shower” – urine play
GSM = “g-spot massage”
H – R
HJ, HR = “hand job” / “hand release”
K9, K-9 = “canine” – dog role-playing
LK = “light kissing” – kissing without tongues
mff = “male female female” – one man, two women
MILF = “mom I’d like to fuck” – hot woman over 30
MP, MR, MSOG = multiple orgasms
ONS = “one night stand” – one-time sexual experience
OWO = “oral without” – blowjob without condom
P4P = “pay for play” – paid sex
PIV = “penis in vagina”
POZ = HIV positive
PS = private show
rimming = Tongue anal
RLD = “red light district”
ROB = “rip off bitch” (AZF), see also Barracuda
Roman shower = Roman shower – vomit play
S – Z
SB = “snowballing” – passing sperm from mouth to mouth
SOMF = “sit on my face” – facesitting
SP = “service provider” – courtesan
STD = “sexually transmitted disease”
STI = “sexually transmitted infections”
SW = “swallowing” or “streetwalker”
TG = “transgender”
TGTBT = “too good to be true”
TT = “tit torture” or breast massage
WS = “water sports” – pee play
XL = “extra large” – very large
XXL = “extra extra large” – gigantic
❓ FAQ – Frequently Asked Questions about Sex Codes
What does AO mean in sex codes?
AO stands for “Alles ohne Kondom” (everything without a condom) and means that sex takes place without contraception. For health reasons, this is not recommended, as the risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) is significantly increased.
What is the difference between NS, WS, and GS?
All three abbreviations refer to the same thing: urine play. NS stands for Natursekt (German), WS for Wassersport (German) or Water Sports (English), and GS for Golden Shower (English). More about this in our Golden Shower Beginner's Guide.
What exactly does BDSM mean?
BDSM is a collective term: Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, and Sadism & Masochism. All practices are based on mutual consent.
What does “French” mean in personal ads?
“French” (abbreviations: F, FM, FO, FT) stands for oral sex. FM = with condom, FO/FN = without condom, FT = French total (without condom with swallowing).
What does DP mean?
DP stands for Double Penetration – simultaneous penetration into two body orifices, usually vaginal and anal, by two partners or with aids.
Where do I encounter sex codes in everyday life?
Sex codes mainly appear in personal ads, BDSM communities, swinger club descriptions, erotic forums, and on fetish platforms. This lexicon helps you quickly look up all terms.
✅ Conclusion: Understanding Sex Codes Made Easy
With this comprehensive lexicon, you are well-equipped to understand all common sex codes and abbreviations. Whether you're browsing personal ads, exchanging ideas in forums, or simply expanding your knowledge – now you know the most important terms from A to Z!
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