Erotic Lexicon

Welcome to dildodave's Erotic Lexicon! Here you'll find comprehensive explanations of over 80 terms from the world of erotica, sexuality, and intimacy. From A for ABS to Z for Zwitter – expand your knowledge and discover new inspiration for your love life.

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ABS

Hard plastic – classic for vibrators. Odorless, free of plasticizers (phthalate-free), good vibration transmission, easy to clean, hygienic, and compatible with all lubricants.

Anal Sex

Anal Sex for Beginners – The Basics of Anal Intercourse

With a lot of tenderness and empathy, anal eroticism can be a special enrichment for your love life. Once inhibitions are overcome, a completely new sexual experience with maximum pleasure awaits you.

Anal Introduction Tips:

1. Hygiene is Key: We recommend using an intimate douche. Important: Never switch between vaginal and anal penetration – this can cause infections!
2. Lubricant is a Must: The anus does not produce moisture like the vagina. Always use plenty of lubricant – preferably special anal lubricants with a slightly numbing effect.
3. Start Slowly: First, gently insert a well "lubricated" finger. If your partner enjoys it, let more follow. The sphincter muscle will relax more and more.
4. The Finale: Carefully insert the penis, dildo, or vibrator with plenty of lubricant. Avoid positions where thrusting can be too forceful. For beginners, we recommend the spooning position.

Men report uniquely strong climaxes, many women – who simultaneously pamper their vagina with a vibrator – report multiple orgasms like never before. Anal sex is a pleasurable variant that you simply must experience!

Anilingus

During anilingus, the man or woman is caressed at the anus with the mouth, tongue, or lips by their partner.

Aphrodisiac

Aphrodisiac is derived from the name of the goddess of love, Aphrodite. An aphrodisiac refers to foods that release sex hormones and endorphins (happiness hormones), thereby increasing desire for sex. Artichokes, asparagus, or oysters are not only healthy but also boost libido – in both men and women.

Arabic

The lubricant (in this case, sex oil) is warmed. The man dips his penis in and then penetrates the woman's vagina. The heat is supposed to stimulate blood circulation and increase pleasure for both. Please only use sex-compatible oil.

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Babydoll

A babydoll is an erotic garment from the 1960s and 1970s – a kind of sheer nightshirt. The body is covered only up to the buttocks and can therefore be worn well with matching panties.

Messing Fetish (Besudelungstrieb)

The messing fetish is the soiling of objects or bodies and the associated sexual arousal. People with these inclinations find their sexual fulfillment in soiling themselves or their partner with, for example, feces, urine, semen, or paint.

Blowjob

During a blowjob, the man's genitals are caressed with the mouth, tongue, or lips by his partner.

Bondage

Bondage – The Art of Tying

Bondage is a tying practice in the BDSM scene to restrict freedom of movement. The correct translation is unfreedom or servitude. For tying fetishists, tying games are an absolute must for sexual stimulation.

There are numerous tying possibilities – from handcuffs or ankle restraints to special ropes that can also cause desired pain. The special thing about tying is often the aesthetics or the sensation that sexually stimulates the restrained person. Added to this is the suppression of the partner, as they are voluntarily incapacitated and must completely surrender – a 100% matter of trust.

⚠️ Important: This practice is not recommended for the inexperienced, as improper application can lead to strangulation and limbs can die off. Dildodave recommends a specialized book or special courses in the scene.

So-called gags or restraints also fall into the bondage category and are usually attached to the head with an adjustable harness. For beginners, we recommend less extreme bondage practices such as tying with handcuffs or silk scarves – eye masks provide a special thrill for a surprise effect.

Brazilian

In the Brazilian, both wear a mask and roll around in bed.

Bukkake

Bukkake is a group sex practice in which several men ejaculate on another person, usually a woman. The most popular way is ejaculation on the face or in the mouth.

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Callboy / Callgirl

Female callgirls or male callboys are prostitutes who offer their services by phone or through advertisements. Callgirls often offer themselves with classified ads or are arranged through special agencies. Clients can then make an appointment by phone and meet in their apartment or a hotel.

Coming Out

Coming out is an important aspect for homosexual people who come out to their family, friends, and/or colleagues, or tell them that they are attracted to the same sex. Everyone has to decide for themselves when to come out – some know it during puberty, others discover themselves anew at 40.

Cunnilingus

During cunnilingus, the woman's genitals are caressed with the mouth, tongue, or lips by her partner.

Cybersex

Cybersex is basically like phone sex with video. Women or men present themselves in front of the camera to be seen by others and perform erotic acts. There are chat rooms where one can make appointments or meet people.

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Defloration

Another word for a girl's first sexual intercourse (deflowering). During the first sexual intercourse, the hymen is penetrated. Mostly there is a small bleeding, but it can also happen that the hymen stretches and does not tear. Defloration usually happens during puberty. If the partner proceeds gently and tenderly, the fear is usually unfounded.

German

"Come on, let's do it German..." German stands for the missionary position, which is clearly number 1 among Germans. For other countries, "German" on the other hand describes extremely rough sex (BDSM, etc.).

Dilator

Penis Plugs / Urethral Plugs / Dilator

Penis plugs serve for extreme gratification – for both men and women. They come in various materials, shapes, colors, and sizes. With or without vibration, this sex toy quickly brings you to climax through careful insertion and the resulting stimulation.

⚠️ Hygiene is crucial: Always ensure sterile application. Use lubricant in small 4ml sachets (single-use sachets) to prevent germ formation. Cleaning should be done with a sex toy cleaner like "clean n safe" or with mild soap and warm water.

Dilators also have a health aspect: In case of urethral narrowing, doctors recommend a penis plug for dilation. Available sizes (also in sets): 4 mm – 18 mm. For novices, dildodave strongly recommends starting with a small diameter and gradually increasing.

Doggy Style

Doggy style or "from behind" refers to the position where the woman kneels on all fours like a dog. This position allows for very deep penetration and is said to stimulate the G-spot.

Domina

The word Domina comes from Latin and means "mistress." In the erotic industry, a Domina is an erotic service provider specializing in the sado-masochistic area, acting dominantly and tormenting or humiliating her clients. Usually, a role play is agreed upon. Most often, the Domina is dressed in black or black-and-red leather, rubber, or latex outfits.

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English

The English like it a bit rougher, but not too rough. Light bondage and a little spanking (light slaps on the butt or body) are a must in English sex practice.

Escort Lady

An escort lady (formerly hostess) spends time with clients for a fee or performs services as agreed. She works for an agency that arranges her when a corresponding request is made.

Exhibitionism

In general, exhibitionism is the urge to undress in front of other people, usually of the opposite sex. Exhibitionists are people who like to show their genitals (more common in men).

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Fanta-Flesh

Fanta-Flesh is a high-quality, particularly realistic rubber made of TPR. It is easy to clean and feels like real skin.

Fellatio

During fellatio (also called a blowjob), the man's genitals or testicles are caressed with the mouth, tongue, or lips by his partner.

Fetish

A fetish refers to a preference for certain materials (latex, leather, silk, etc.), objects, or sexual practices that lead to heightened pleasure during sex. These fetishes are meant to fulfill specific sexual desires and can be highly arousing just by sight.

Fisting

Fisting – Extreme Penetration

Fisting involves extreme penetration, which can be practiced both anally and vaginally. With plenty of lubricant, you should gradually approach this sex practice.

⚠️ Be aware of dangers: If not approached gently or carefully enough during insertion, painful injuries, even a bowel perforation, can occur. Long-term and with overly extreme practices, it can lead to sphincter dysfunction and thus fecal incontinence. Disposable gloves can help prevent the risk of infection.

French

Whoever doesn't know this has slept through the world! Probably the most famous variant: Everyone knows oral sex – pampering with the mouth for men or women.

Foot Eroticism

Foot lovers or people who admire and find the female foot erotic know what they appreciate about feet. This then counts as a foot fetish. If the penis is masturbated between the partner's feet, it is called a "footjob." If "work" is done more with the toes, it is called a "toejob."

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Girlfriend Sex

Girlfriend sex is a type of prostitution where the prostitute takes on the role of a normal girlfriend. This means it's not just about pure sex, but also about pampering and being loved. During the act, kisses/French kissing and French without a condom are also possible. After sex, one can cuddle, caress, or talk like in a normal relationship.

Lubricant

Which lubricant is right for me?

We generally distinguish between water-based, silicone-based, or water- and silicone-based (hybrid lubricants). There are also natural plant-based lubricants.

Silicone-based lubricants:
✅ Advantages: Long-lasting glide, doesn't dry out, no "pilling"
❌ Disadvantages: NOT compatible with silicone sex toys – attacks and destroys them in the long run

Water-based lubricants:
✅ Advantages: Usable with all sex toys, easily washable
❌ Disadvantages: Pilling possible with cheap products
💡 Tip: High-quality brand products like Aquaglide, Eros Bodyglide, or Pjur also offer excellent glide properties with a water base

For anal sex: Use special anal lubricants with a relaxing effect – these relax the sphincter muscle through natural active ingredients.

⚠️ Important for latex condoms: Be sure to check lubricant compatibility!

Greek

Anal sex. Yes, precisely, in a nutshell: The Greeks are friends of the back door.

Group Sex

A precise definition of group sex does not exist. However, the term is often used as a synonym for "orgy." Sex between three people is usually referred to as a "threesome" or "ménage à trois." Sexual intercourse with 4 people (usually two couples) is called "partner swapping." The English term "gang bang" is also frequently used – this usually refers to sex between several men and a few women.

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Handjob

As the name suggests, this refers to the gratification of a man by a foreign hand. The penis is pampered only with the hand, but this requires some practice. Those who prefer even more arousal can include a blowjob or stimulation of the testicles or anus.

Heterosexuality

If you are attracted to people of the opposite sex, you are heterosexual – the normal love between a man and a woman. The term arose when homosexuality was adopted into common language.

Homosexuality

Homosexual is someone who has an inclination towards the same sex – both in men and women. About 6-10% of the population is homosexual. If you add those who have homosexual thoughts or desires, this value is significantly higher.

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Impotence

Impotence is erectile dysfunction in men, now usually referred to as "erectile dysfunction." The lack of strength in the penis can have many different reasons – most often it's a mental issue: too much stress or anxiety. Of course, smoking, alcohol, drugs, or diseases like high blood pressure can also lead to it. Nowadays, there are medications or sex therapists who can counteract impotence.

Intimate Douche

An intimate douche is a widespread utensil for cleaning the intimate area. It usually consists of a rubber bulb and a cannula, with which water can be pumped into the vagina or anus. In the past, vaginal douching was also used for contraception.

Italian

Now it's getting crazy: The man orgasms by rubbing his member between her armpit. If you like it... 😉

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Japanese Massage

Erotic Japanese Massage

In Japanese brothels, erotic massages are often performed on air mattresses or couches. After showering together with the masseuse, the client lies down and is massaged by the masseuse. She usually uses her whole body (oiled or soaped) to pamper the man.

Jelly

Or soft PVC with up to 30% plasticizers – excellent elasticity and strength, adapts well to body temperature.

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Clitoris

The clitoris has many names: clitoris, pleasure point, or "center of female pleasure." In English, it is called "clit," and in literature, it is known as the "bud of pleasure." The clitoris is the most sensitive sexual organ of a woman and in most cases primarily responsible for her sense of pleasure. Many women can achieve orgasm through manual stimulation of the clitoris.

Gag

A gag is something that prevents a person from communicating effectively. Speaking or screaming is almost impossible. In erotic games, a gag is often used to humiliate one's partner. ⚠️ Attention: Such methods can lead to shortness of breath or respiratory arrest and should be used with caution.

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Lap Dance

Lapdance translates to "lap dance." Lap dancing is an interesting activity not only in nightclubs but also at home. It is usually the woman who seduces her partner. If you want to bring more fire into your relationship, then a lap dance is definitely for you. During this dance, the dancer either wears very little clothing or delights with her bare torso. Dancing on the partner's/client's lap is customary.

Latex

The classic material for sex toys – no plasticizers (phthalate-free), perfect elasticity, easy to care for, hygienic, environmentally friendly.

Love Balls

Love Balls – Training & Pleasure Simultaneously

This sex toy not only strengthens the pelvic floor muscles when worn, but also provides an irritating sensation. Love balls are particularly recommended for postnatal exercises after pregnancy.

They are inserted vaginally and usually consist of two balls, often containing a metal ball inside. This inner ball provides intense stimulation with every movement. Love balls have a retrieval loop for easy removal.

There are numerous versions: with or without vibration, with a smooth or ribbed surface, or as single balls (Ben Wa Balls). They can also be worn during anal intercourse and create a "tighter" feeling.

⚠️ Observe hygiene: Love balls are often worn for several hours in everyday life. This requires a bacteria-free surface to prevent illnesses or inflammation.

Love Swing

Love Swings – Discover New Positions

These sex toys are a very special way to practice different positions during sexual intercourse. Sex swings are available in various designs and with different load limits. They are usually attached to the ceiling.

💡 Tip: The maximum load weight is specified by the manufacturer – be sure to observe this when purchasing! If you want to have fun on the swing as a couple, you should opt for a heavy-duty swing (load limit up to 250 kg). The load can be increased by using a so-called partner spring.

Love swings ensure an imaginative love life – you can try out all conceivable positions and bring new "swing" into the bedroom!

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Massage

The purpose of a massage is to stimulate blood circulation in the skin and muscles from the outside, either manually or with devices. Rest, recuperation, and relaxation can thus be easily achieved.

Erotic Massages: All

Erotic massages
All massages that induce a sense of well-being can be described as "erotic massage." Not only the massage itself, but also the surroundings and the use of fragrant oils can trigger an erotic effect. Therefore, normal massages that serve for relaxation cannot be compared with intimate massages.

Intimate massages
During an intimate massage, the masseuse or masseur specifically aims to stimulate the genitals. This is usually done through hand massages.
In the erotic industry, these or similar massages are offered as "additional services" in well-known "massage parlors."


Masturbator
The masturbator is a term from the modern erotic industry.
A masturbator refers to an artificial vagina into which men can masturbate.
They are very realistic and promise a feeling as if one were not alone.
But of course, masturbators can also make lovemaking between two sexual partners even more erotic and wild.
Whether she pampers him with it or he satisfies himself, that is left to imagination and desire.
Often, the term masturbator also describes a man who enjoys masturbating.


Milf
The term MILF is an abbreviation for "Mother I Would Like to Fuck."
By the term MILF, most teenagers/young adults understand not only a mother, but generally older and more mature women who are very attractive and erotically appealing for their age.
A woman who is 35 years old and has no children can therefore also be called a MILF by her admirer.

Other terms that follow the same principle also exist:

DILF - Dad I would Like to Fuck
SILF - Sister I would Like to Fuck
BILF - Brother I would Like to Fuck
GILF - Grandma I would Like to Fuck


Mongolian
The penis is rubbed between her buttocks. Very important: without penetration.

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Natural Sparkling Wine
"Natural sparkling wine" is not wine, but urine. This disguised term is common in the erotic industry and is mostly used for extreme fetishes or preferences.
There are two types of "water sports" with natural sparkling wine:

1. The passive partner is urinated on, feeling the warm and erotic sensation of urine on the skin.
2. The urine is drunk. The experience is said to be particularly stimulating if the passive partner drinks the "sparkling wine" directly from the vagina/penis. Of course, it can also be drunk from a normal glass or, to further enhance the natural sparkling wine experience, from a champagne flute.


Sixty-Nine
Sixty-nine is a sexual position in which both partners simultaneously orally pleasure each other by lying in opposite directions and caressing each other's genitals with their tongues or lips.


Nylons
Nylons or nylon stockings are, among other things, an erotic item of clothing that has been made from the fabric "nylon" since the post-war period. It is relatively elastic.
"Nylons" used to lead to competition on the streets. Every woman wanted to be the most beautiful and wore what made her legs shiny and erotic. Particularly appealing were nylons with a black seam.
High heels and suspenders belong to nylons, along with a delightful skirt, and the erotic sensation is perfect.


Nymphomania
Nymphomania is usually only spoken of when an excessive desire for sex prioritizes frequent partner changes. The person affected cannot commit to one partner but is always looking to live out their sexual urges.
A nymphomaniac is a woman who has a higher desire for sexual intercourse.
In earlier times, the term was used for "excessive" sexual activity or "lust" in women. A woman who had an excessive desire for sex and was labeled a nymphomaniac did not have an easy time back then.
The female counterpart is satyriasis, so nymphomania is as common in men as in women.
Today, the term is no longer used as frequently because it is sexist and derogatory.

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One Night Stand
A one-night stand is a non-committal, erotic adventure/sex for one night or less. It comes from English, although in English, the term "casual sex" is often used instead of "one night stand."
Historically, a one-night stand meant a "one-off guest appearance."
In colloquial language, the person with whom one has spent an erotic night is also referred to as a one-night stand.
The abbreviation ONS has become increasingly established on platforms for sex contacts.
A one-night stand can be an infidelity, but it doesn't have to be, as infidelity by definition requires at least one of the two sexual partners to be in a relationship, which is not the case with a one-night stand.
In contrast to a one-night stand, a quickie refers exclusively to the very short duration of sexual intercourse and can also occur in a committed relationship.


Oral Sex
The term oral sex is used when a man or woman sexually pleases or caresses their partner with their mouth on the genitals, i.e., the vagina or penis.
These practices are also called blowjob or fellatio (on the penis) or cunnilingus (on the vagina).
Further terms include:
Anilingus (the anus is caressed or kissed with the mouth or lips)
Sixty-nine (both partners simultaneously pleasure each other orally by lying in opposite directions)

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Penis Ring
What does a penis ring do?
Cock rings are placed around the penis and ensure that blood collects in the corpora cavernosa.
This results in increased potency and enhanced ejaculation.
This is a useful sex toy, especially for men with potency problems.
Dildodave recommends using a lubricant when applying it so that the ring can be pulled over the member more easily.
It is very important to adhere to the wearing time. Men should not leave penis rings on for longer than 30 minutes, as wearing them for too long can cause blood vessels to congest and the penis to suffer damage due to lack of blood flow.
There are numerous designs that provide additional stimulation.
For example, with a small vibrating motor that stimulates the penis, testicles, or, when touched, the clitoris.
Adjustable penis rings are advantageous for beginners, as they can be adjusted so that they are not too tight. The experience you gain will show you how tight it should be.


Penis Extender
There are various reasons why a man might wear a penis extender.
One reason is often a potency problem. Here, a penis extender or sleeve helps provide the necessary firmness.
Another reason for wearing a penis sleeve is size. Either it is too small, or the partner desires to be more filled or intensely stimulated.
Then this sex toy is exactly what you need.
There are different sizes, shapes, and colors, and the various materials offer every user a wide selection.
When choosing an extender, pay attention to the inner length and inner diameter.
For the penis to sit firmly in the sheath and not slide back and forth, you should choose a soft and stretchable material that fits snugly.
For a secure hold of a penis sleeve, designs with so-called retaining loops/eyelets, which are pulled over the testicles, often ensure secure application.
There are also versions without a retaining loop.
These models are pulled over the member like a condom. Here, you should also ensure that the penis sheath fits snugly so that it does not "slip off" during sexual intercourse.
Dildodave also recommends a lubricant when using penis extenders.
When choosing a lubricating gel, you should definitely pay attention to material compatibility.
Cleaning is classically done with water and mild soap or a sex toy cleaner.


Prostate Stimulation
Men can also be sexually satisfied by their partners in a completely different way: through direct stimulation of the prostate. One hand on the prostate, the other on the penis. The orgasm will be more intense and pleasurable than ever before, yet somewhat confusing as it is a new experience that newcomers must get used to.
For some women, too, stimulating their partner's prostate is a challenge. They often don't even know where it is located or simply feel inhibited.

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Queening
The term Queening (Facesitting) is a fetish where the woman sits naked or in panties on the face of the man/slave.
The particular allure for men is that the woman controls their breathing. If the airways are blocked by the vagina or buttocks, not only can oral sex occur, but there is also a risk of suffocation.
Meanwhile, there are various aids to make this thrill even more exciting. The Queening chair and the smothering box, for example, are made specifically for this fetish. Either only the slave's face is free or, with the Queening chair, the dominatrix's buttocks.


Quickie
The word quickie comes from the English word "quick," which translates to fast.
It refers to quick, non-committal sex. Foreplay, tenderness, or emotion have no place in a quickie; it's simply about being satisfied.
The quickie is as popular among couples as it is among short-term sexual acquaintances.

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Cowgirl Position
In the cowgirl position, the woman squats on the man, who is lying on his back.
This position is particularly beautiful for women as they can control the speed and intensity themselves.
Since the woman "rides" him, this position is called the cowgirl position.


Lingerie
Not long ago, "lingerie" was dismissively referred to. A term that brought erotic clothing into the realm of cheap industries.
Fortunately, this attitude has changed in recent years.
Erotic clothing is a delight for those who have tried it and value it. Both men and women naturally react very strongly to erotic clothing, albeit individually.
Erotic clothing emphasizes and directs the viewer's gaze to precisely those areas of the body that inspire, please, and arouse them. A beautiful bra or an attractive top embraces a woman's breasts and accentuates her magnificent curves. You can let your imagination run wild.
Both women and men find it particularly appealing when erotic clothing invites "unwrapping," like a long-awaited gift. Imagine tracing and exploring his/her naked skin with kisses, while some parts are still veiled by alluring lingerie and safe from your lips. As you make love, you reveal more and more of him or her, exposing the magnificent spots and starting another round with fingers and/or kisses on your partner's interesting areas.
Erotic clothing is most arousing when both partners consciously engage in it and start a game together.
An important plus point is that erotic clothing is not (underwear) that we wear every day. When she or he wears erotic clothing, it's like the white dress for a wedding or the evening gown or tuxedo for a cozy dinner. It shows the other: "I want to please you, look at me."
People are very different, and tastes and special preferences for erotic clothing are just as diverse. Fortunately, we have a large assortment where everyone can find the right thing, so you can give your darling a very special gift again.


Russian
The safest method in terms of contraception. A lot of oil is involved here. The partner's anus is massaged with a finger (without penetration). Alternatively, the penis is often rubbed between the partner's oiled thighs.

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Swedish
Swedish... no, this isn't about blondes or anything like that.
She pulls back his foreskin, exposing the glans. Then she holds his penis and lets him have his way with her.


Silicone
The premium material for sex toys - odorless - free of plasticizers (phthalate-free) - UV and heat resistant - anti-allergenic - easy to clean - hygienic - good adaptation to body temperature - silicone does not get along with silicone. Therefore, please do not use silicone lubricant, but rather water-based lubricant.


Spanish
Also known as breast sex or titjob. He rubs his penis between the woman's breasts until he cums.
The woman can control the friction by pressing her breasts together.
Spanish with suction. The penis is pushed forward until it also enters the mouth.


Strap-On
This sex toy comes in two basic versions:
Hollow or solid material.
Women can wear both variants, while men can logically only wear hollow strap-ons, or
also called dildos with straps.
These act like a penis extension and ensure that he fills HER adequately.
Dildos with straps are available in all conceivable shapes, colors, and sizes. With vibration and without,
up to the double strap-on for simultaneous anal and vaginal satisfaction.
Here, your preference decides.
Women usually choose a solid strap-on if they want to satisfy their partner, either female or male,
vaginally or anally.
To stimulate a man's prostate with a strap-on, you should choose a dildo with a slight upward curve.
This way, his G-spot is easily reached.
We generally recommend always using a lubricant for anal sex.
Especially for beginners, it makes sense to use a relaxing lubricant.
These have the function of relaxing the sphincter and counteract any cramping during penetration.
A hollow strap-on dildo can also help men with potency problems to bring some excitement into the
bedroom. To choose the right one, usually in a realistic shape, you should
definitely pay attention to the right size. The inner diameter can vary greatly and
should be chosen to fit your penis so that a perfect fit is guaranteed and both
enjoy the penetration.
This sex toy is usually cleaned with a sex toy cleaner or with water and mild
soap.


Swinging
Swinging means partner swapping, where couples meet in swingers clubs and swap partners.
When couples meet, it usually happens as follows:
The partner is swapped, the man gets another woman and the woman gets another man.
Mostly, sexual intercourse takes place in specially designated rooms, so that they can have sex together, i.e. as a foursome or more (group sex).

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Thai
Both partners oil their entire bodies. She then glides and slides her erotic body over his, satisfying him. Until the happy end...


TPE
(Nature Skin, Cyber Skin Material) - odorless - free of plasticizers (phthalate-free) - super elasticity and strength - UV-resistant - body-compatible - environmentally friendly - good adaptation to body temperature.


Dry Sex
Dry sex is a sexual act in which the genitals do not touch and no bodily fluids are exchanged. Both partners remain clothed, underwear is completely sufficient. The partners rub their genitals together through their clothing while the tension builds, when neither of them is allowed to climax.
Almost 50 years ago, dry sex was often used by younger couples, today it is just a game of temptation.

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Submission
The term "submission" comes from the BDSM scene.
During lovemaking, partners, especially women, enjoy being submissive. Although women are now also happy to playfully submit men. Here, all involved understand that they are playing a game together, which is only played for the duration of the lovemaking.
Role-playing goes a step further. Here, the submissive person dreams of giving up control irresponsibly, letting others decide, and following instructions.
For example, the man could slip into a woman's dress, be beaten, be anally satisfied, or lick a woman's feet.


Lewdness
The term "lewdness" refers to extramarital sexual intercourse (cheating). The word is applied to any type of sexual intercourse outside of marriage.
In technical language, "lewdness" usually simply means "sexual intercourse", so "lewd acts" are all sexual touches.
In older language, homosexuality was usually referred to as "unnatural lewdness". However, the term is outdated.

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Vinyl
Vinyl is an amorphous thermoplastic. Its advantage is its durability. Sunlight does not decompose it, its properties are not affected. Water (even salty seawater) and air cannot destroy it. The consistency is externally soft and internally hard.

Foreplay
Foreplay is the "warm-up phase" before actual sexual intercourse.
In old sex manuals, foreplay had a special significance. Foreplay was seen as an appetizer before the main course. After the appetizer, there is a dessert, the afterplay. This example was intended to teach men that women do not want/cannot immediately engage in sexual intercourse. They first need foreplay to "warm up".
The warm-up includes kissing and caressing or even oral sex.

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White Studio
The "White Studio" comes from the porn industry and refers to a room where role-playing games such as doctor erotica are practiced.
In this role-playing game, the sex partners dress up as doctor and patient.
Medical examinations are reenacted, and then sexual acts occur.

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Chastisement
Chastisement often occurs in role-playing and BDSM relationships, where people are humiliated or educated through beatings and other corporal punishments.
Different types of punishments are applied and are reminiscent of punishments from earlier times, when students and staff were educated with beatings.
Minor offenses are punished with slaps.
A slap with an open hand is very erotic just through skin contact.
Harsher punishments with a rod, strap, or cane were also common then. Almost anything that could be grabbed could be used for beating. Wooden spoons or slippers also had to serve. In school, there were also slaps with a ruler on outstretched hands, as well as on the buttocks.


Hermaphrodite
Hermaphrodites are people who do not have unambiguous sexual characteristics.
They have both female and male sexual organs.