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Anal sex
Anal sex for beginners, the 1x1 of anal intercourse
With a lot of tenderness and sensitivity, anal eroticism can become a special enrichment for your love life. Once you have overcome your inhibitions, you will be treated to a completely new sexual experience with maximum pleasure. So that you can enjoy the new pleasure without any worries, we recommend that you follow our tips.
Anal insertion tips:
1. The fun of anal sex starts with hygiene. We recommend using an intimate shower.
But no matter how intensive the cleaning was, never switch between vaginal and anal
Penetration; can cause infections in the vagina!
2. The anus does not produce moisture like the vagina. So always use lubricant – lots of it – on
best special anal lubricants. These always have a slightly numbing effect.
3. First, insert a finger that “glides” well. If your partner enjoys the game, let
more carefully follow. The sphincter will relax more and more.
4. Now you can experience the finale. Carefully insert the penis, dildo or vibrator with plenty of lubricant.
Avoid positions where you can push too hard. We recommend starting with
Spooning position. Always proceed with tenderness and gentleness.
So, now you are well informed to indulge in the special thrill of anal sex. Men report uniquely strong climaxes, many women who simultaneously pleasure their vagina with a vibrator report multiple orgasms that they have never experienced before. Anal sex is a pleasurable game that men/women simply have to experience!
Analingus
During anilingus, the man or woman is caressed by his or her partner on his or her anus with his or her mouth, tongue or lips.
aphrodisiac
Aphrodisiac is derived from the name of the goddess of love, Aphrodite.
Aphrodisiacs are foods that release sex hormones and endorphins (happiness hormones), which make you more interested in sex.
Artichokes, asparagus and oysters are not only vegetarian and healthy, but also stimulate desire in both men and women.
Just try it out before your next lovemaking session.
Arabic
The lubricant, in this case sex oil, is heated. The man then dips his penis in it and then penetrates the woman's vagina. The heat is supposed to stimulate the woman's blood flow and increase pleasure for both. Please only use oil that is suitable for sex.
Babydoll
A babydoll is an erotic garment from the 1960s and 1970s, a kind of transparent shirt for the night. The body is only covered up to the bottom and can therefore be worn with matching panties.
The babydolls of current fashion are designed to be a little more passive. In earlier times, they were much shorter and, above all, more girlish.
The word "babydoll" not only refers to the item of clothing but also to a fashion style in which adult women wear, among other things, girlish clothing.
Defilement drive
The defilement drive is the soiling of objects or bodies and the associated sexual excitement and satisfaction.
People with these tendencies find their pleasure fulfillment in soiling themselves or their partner with feces, urine, sperm, paint, etc.
Blowjob
During a blowjob, the man's partner caresses his genitals with his mouth, tongue or lips.
Bondage
Bondage is a bondage practice in the SM scene to restrict freedom of movement.
The correct translation is unfreedom or slavery.
For bondage fetishists, bondage games for sexual stimulation are an absolute must.
There are numerous bondage options and bondage games. Starting from hand or foot cuffs to
to special ropes, which can also cause a desired pain and through
a special technique must be applied.
The special thing about bondage is often the aesthetics or the sensation that the
Sexually stimulate those who are tied up. In addition, there is the oppression of the partner, since he voluntarily
is unable to act and has to devote himself completely to his partner.
A 100% matter of trust.
This practice is not recommended for inexperienced users, as incorrect use can lead to
Strangulation can occur and limbs can die.
That's why dildodave recommends a specialist book or special courses in the scene.
So-called gags or gags also belong to the bondage category and are usually
an adjustable harness attached to the head.
The insert (gag or gag) can consist of a rubber ball or wooden gag and gives that extra kick when tied up.
Not only are you tied up, but you also cannot complain or report if you don't like something or have a request.
You will have to endure everything.
Of course, a less harmless bondage practice is tying someone up with handcuffs or
Silk scarves are a good way to get started with this fascinating topic.
A special attraction in this context are eye masks, so that the surprise effect
is larger.
Brazilian
In the Brazilian version, both wear a mask and roll around in bed.
Bukkake
Bukkake is a group sex practice in which several men ejaculate on another person, usually a woman.
The most popular way is to ejaculate on the face or in the mouth.
Callboy / Callgirl
Female call girls or male call boys are prostitutes who offer their services by telephone or in advertisements.
Call girls often offer themselves through classified ads or are arranged through special agencies.
Customers can then make an appointment by phone and meet the call girl in their apartment or a hotel.
The term "callboy" is still a relatively new term. His clientele includes women and, above all, homosexual men. Many callboys work part-time.
Coming out
Coming out is an important aspect for homosexual people who come out to family, friends and/or colleagues or tell them that they are attracted to the same sex. Many people are afraid of this because their inclination is often not socially accepted.
Everyone has to decide for themselves when to come out. Some people know it during puberty at 13, 14 or 15, and others discover themselves all over again at the age of 40.
Cunnilingus
During cunnilingus, a woman's partner caresses her genitals with their mouth, tongue or lips.
Cybersex
Cybersex is basically like phone sex with pictures.
Women or men present themselves in front of the camera to be seen by others and to perform erotic acts.
There are chat rooms where you can arrange to meet people or get to know each other.
When women offer themselves via webcam, the "clients" can simulate sexual acts, masturbate, or give the woman instructions on how he would like to see her or what he would like her to do for him.
defloration
Another word for a girl's first sexual intercourse (defloration).
During the first sexual intercourse or through the penetration of the penis or a finger, the hymen is pierced.
Most of the time, there is a small amount of bleeding when the hymen is broken, but it can also happen that the hymen stretches and does not tear. It can also be damaged by physical activity such as cycling, gymnastics, falls or masturbation.
Defloration usually occurs during puberty. Many young girls associate defloration with a painful experience and are afraid of it. However, this fear is usually unfounded if the partner is gentle and tender during the first sexual intercourse and does not penetrate too quickly.
German
Come on, let's do it German... It almost sounds like an insult. German stands for the missionary position, which by the way is clearly number 1 for us Germans.
For other countries, however, German is the description for extremely hard sex. SM etc...
Dilator
Penis plugs, also called urethral plugs or dilators, are used for extreme satisfaction. For both men and women.
They are available in a wide range of materials, shapes, colours and sizes. With or without vibration, this sex toy will quickly bring you to climax through careful insertion and the resulting stimulation. Connoisseurs and experts wear a urethral plug for several hours. This is usually chosen in a hollow version so that it does not have to be removed when urinating. There are also plugs with a ring. This is placed around the glans to secure it. Hygiene and disinfection play a very important role with plugs. Please always ensure that they are used sterilely. To ensure this, when choosing a lubricant you should make sure that it is filled in small 4ml bags (single-use sachets). This prevents germs from forming on the lubricant packaging and there is no risk of infection. The dilator should be cleaned either with a sex toy cleaner such as our "clean n safe sex toy cleaner" or with mild soap and warm water. The advantage of the sex toy cleaner is its disinfecting effect. Of course, dilators also have a health aspect. For example, if the urethra is narrowed, doctors recommend a penis plug to stretch or widen it. Available sizes, also in sets, are 4 mm - 18 mm. For beginners, dildodave strongly recommends starting with a small diameter and then gradually increasing. This not only increases the elasticity of the urethra, but also the desire for more.
Doggy style
Doggy style or "from behind" refers to the so-called doggie position, in which the woman kneels on all fours like a dog.
This position allows for very deep penetration and is intended to stimulate the so-called G-spot.
Domina
The word dominatrix comes from Latin and, outside of eroticism, simply means a mistress - the "mistress of the house" or "landlady of the house".
A man who is sadistic is called "Dominus".
In the erotic industry, a dominatrix is an erotic service provider who specializes in the sadomasochistic area, acts dominant and tortures or humiliates her customers. A role play is usually agreed upon for this.
The dominatrix is usually dressed in black, black and red leather, rubber or patent leather. The appearance of dominatrixes today is strongly influenced by internet pornography. There, the women are usually shown in cheap lingerie. In reality, the clothing is more dependent on the role play that was agreed upon beforehand.
In almost every escort service there is this special woman for hard eroticism and a special fetish.
Today, dominatrixes are often simple "lateral entrants" into the profession - but you should learn certain bondage techniques and correct behavior.
English
The English like it a little harder, but not too hard. Light bondage games and a little spanking (light blows to the bottom or body) are a must in English sex practice.
Escort lady
An escort lady (formerly hostess) spends time with customers for a fee or, depending on the agreement, in some cases also provides services.
She works for an agency that places her when there is a corresponding request.
There will be a suitable woman for every customer, from the well-styled and modern ladies who are available as an escort for special occasions to the prostitute who uses the escort service as a "side job".
exhibitionism
In general, exhibitionism is the urge to undress in front of other people, usually the opposite sex.
Exhibitionists are people who like to show their genitals (more common in men).
Nowadays, allusions are also made to women's fashion. Women who appear scantily clad in public are sometimes called exhibitionists. This is probably due to the ignorance of the people who label them as such.
Fanta Flesh
Fanta-Flesh is a high-quality, extremely realistic rubber made of TPR. It is easy to clean and feels like real skin.
fellatio
During fellatio (also called a blowjob), the man's partner caresses his genitals or testicles with his mouth, tongue or lips.
fetish
A fetish is about a preference for certain materials (lacquer, leather, silk, etc.), objects or sexual practices that make you feel increased pleasure during sex.
These fetishes are intended to fulfill specific sexual desires and can be very arousing just to look at.
Disguises in role play are perfect for fetishists who like unusual clothing (uniforms, underwear, stockings, boots) and want to live out their sexual desires in their relationship.
Extreme fetishes such as sadomasochism and transvestism are often only practiced in secret. Since society is not yet used to them and most people are not yet aware of these fetishes, they are less accepted in public.
The senses such as touch, taste and smell also play a major role in the fetish. If some senses are switched off (e.g. blindfolded) then the other senses react better and more intensely and the sexual stimulation increases.
fisting
Fisting (also called fisting or fisting) involves extreme penetration.
This can be practiced both anally and vaginally.
You should gradually approach this sexual practice with plenty of lubricant.
In the beginning, three fingers are usually sufficient to reach the maximum stretching range of the vagina or
of the anus.
In order to be able to insert the whole hand, two hands, a fist or even part of the forearm, a lot of patience and practice is required until the intestine and the anal sphincter or the vaginal tube stretch sufficiently.
You should be aware of the dangers. If you are not gentle or careful enough
If the insertion is not carried out correctly, painful injuries and even intestinal rupture can occur.
In the long term and with too extreme practices, it can even lead to a malfunction of the anal sphincter
and thus lead to fecal incontinence.
Vaginal fisting can, among other things, cause injury to the vaginal wall.
Diseases such as gonorrhea, herpes or fungal infections can also be transmitted through fisting.
You can prevent the risk of infection by wearing disposable gloves.
French
Anyone who doesn't know this has missed the whole world.. :) The most well-known form of sex.. Everyone certainly knows about oral sex. The act of pampering a man or woman with the mouth.
Foot eroticism
In foot eroticism, the foot was once considered a penis substitute, but this statement could never be proven.
Foot lovers or simply people who admire the female foot and find it erotic know what they have on their feet. This is then considered a foot fetish. Sometimes it is enough to simply admire the foot and allow yourself to be seduced by the eroticism.
Of course, you can also go further and really pamper your partner's foot, lick it or suck on the toes.
If you want to include feet in your sex life and the penis is masturbated between your partner's feet, it is called a "footjob". If the toes are used, it is called a "toejob".
Girlfriend sex
Girlfriend sex is a form of prostitution in which the whore takes on the role of a normal girlfriend.
This means that it is not just about sex, but also about pampering and being loved.
During the act, kissing/French kissing and French kissing without a condom are also possible.
After sex you can cuddle, caress or talk, just like in a normal relationship.
lubricant
How do I know which lubricant is right for me?
Dildodave gives you useful tips here:
We basically differentiate between the most common lubricants based on
water-based, silicone-based or water and silicone-based (so-called hybrid lubricants).
There are also natural herbal lubricants that are often used in the anal area and for
Scene insiders will find use.
Lubricants and creams are available in a wide variety of colors, flavors and
consistencies available. There is something for every imagination.
The consistency often depends on the intended purpose.
For intensive massages, a thicker lubricant is often used to ensure
Long-lasting gliding properties are given.
But lubricants with long-lasting properties are also increasingly being used for sexual intercourse.
Sliding properties are desired. These are usually made of silicone.
The advantage here is that the lubricant does not dry out and no “crumbs” can form.
The disadvantage is the simultaneous use with silicone sex toys. These two are compatible
Silicone-based lubricants attack silicone sex toys and destroy them in the long term.
This factor does not play a role with water-based lubricant. Any sex toy can be used here
However, the gliding properties of common water-based lubricants are not as good as those of
Compare with silicone gels.
After just a short time, the gel dries out and “crumbs” form.
This does not happen with high-quality brand products such as Aquaglide, Eros Bodyglide or Pjur.
On the contrary. Although these lubricant manufacturers offer water-based products,
In terms of their gliding properties, they hardly differ from silicone gels.
Furthermore, water-based lubricants with various
flavors. These are often used for oral use. Swallowing
of these lubricants is safe as long as there is a note on the tube stating that it is “food safe”
is listed.
For anal use or for fisting games you have the choice of different
Lubricants with a relaxing effect. These ensure that the anal sphincter relaxes.
Through a special composition of different, often natural active ingredients, they act
Something like an anesthetic. Cramping during anal sex is a thing of the past.
Simply spray or cream the anal sphincter and allow it to take effect for a moment
and anal sex can begin uninhibited.
When using latex condoms, it is important to check the compatibility of the lubricant with
This is indicated in product descriptions.
The lubricant is washed off in the traditional way with water and shower gel/soap or similar.
You should know that water-based gels or creams are easier to remove than
Silicone-based gels.
Now you have to decide which lubricant is right for you.
Greek
Anal sex.. Yes, exactly, in short: the Greeks are friends of the back door.
Group sex
There is actually no exact definition of group sex. However, the term is often used as a synonym for "orgy".
Sex between three people is usually referred to as a "threesome" or "triplet".
Sexual intercourse involving four people, usually two couples, is usually called "partner swapping".
Otherwise, the term group sex refers to sexual intercourse involving more than four people.
The English term "gang bang" is also often used. This usually refers to sex between several men and a few women.
handjob
As the name suggests, this is about the satisfaction of the man through a stranger's hand.
The man's penis is only pampered with the hand, but this requires some practice to offer his loved one an unforgettable experience.
If you prefer even more excitement, you can include a blowjob or stimulation of the testicles or anus. Of course, this type of satisfaction can also be made more intense by tying the man up and leaving him completely at the mercy of his partner.
Since stimulation usually continues until climax, sexual intercourse usually does not take place afterwards.
Heterosexuality
If you are attracted to people of the opposite sex, you are heterosexual, the normal love between a man and a woman.
The term arose when homosexuality became part of everyday language.
In homosexuality, the partner is of the same sex and in heterosexuality, the partner is of the opposite sex. Sexual love is between a man and a woman.
homosexuality
A homosexual is someone who has an attraction to the same sex, both men and women.
About 6-10% of the population is homosexual. If you include those who have homosexual thoughts or desires, this number is much higher.
The term homosexuality has not been around for very long. However, people did not find it easy to agree on a name for same-sex love. The term homosexual has been used since the 20th century.
impotence
Impotence is erectile dysfunction in men, which is now usually referred to as “erectile dysfunction”.
There can be many different reasons for the lack of strength in the penis. Most often it is a mental issue, too much stress or fears hidden in the head.
Of course, things like smoking, alcohol or other drugs, as well as diseases such as high blood pressure or an injury to the erectile tissue in the penis can lead to it no longer being as firm as desired.
Nowadays, there are medications or sex therapists that can counteract impotence.
Intimate shower
An intimate shower is a common utensil that is not only used in the porn industry. It is used to clean the intimate area and usually consists of a rubber ball and a cannula that can be used to pump water into the vagina or anus.
However, vaginal douching was not only used for hygiene purposes, but also for contraception, which is why such devices were often found in households even then.
Italian
Now things get crazy. The man reaches orgasm by rubbing his penis between your armpits.
If you like it... :)
Japanese massage
Many different types of health care come from Far Eastern countries, including massage, which is used for therapeutic purposes. A Japanese massage is also called Shiatsu when it is used for physical well-being.
Japanese erotic massage
In Japanese brothels, erotic massages are often performed on air mattresses or loungers. After a shower with the masseuse, the customer lies down and is massaged by the masseuse. She usually uses her whole body (oiled or soaped) to pamper the man.
Jelly
Or soft PVC with up to 30% plasticizers - excellent elasticity and strength - adjusts well to body temperature.
clitoris
The clitoris has many names. Well-known terms such as clitoris, pleasure point or "center of female pleasure" appear frequently.
In English, and often in porn films, it is called clit and in literature it is known as the "pleasure bud".
The clitoris is a very sensitive, even the most sensitive, sexual organ of a woman and is in most cases mainly responsible for her feeling of pleasure.
There are many women who can achieve orgasm through manual stimulation of the clitoris.
Maybe the next time you have sex with your partner you could incorporate the clitoris into your sex play and see if she reacts positively.
Gag
A gag is something that prevents a person from communicating properly. Speaking or screaming is almost impossible. If you don't have a gag to hand, you can simply use a cloth, tape or even panties.
In erotic games, a gag is often used to humiliate a partner. Different types of gags open up many different game options. A simple example is: the partner with the gagged partner is supposed to answer questions and cannot answer them intelligibly (impossible because of the gag). The gagged partner is punished for incorrect answers.
But be careful, such methods can lead to shortness of breath or respiratory arrest and should be used with caution.
Lap dance
Lap dance means “lap dance”.
Lap dancing is an interesting thing not only in nightclubs, but also at home. It is usually the woman who seduces her partner.
If you want to bring more fire into your relationship, then a lap dance is definitely something for you. Surprise your partner with a short show.
You've probably seen it at a bachelor/bachelorette party or 18th birthday, where a dancer is hired for the person being celebrated.
In this dance, the dancer either wears very little clothing or she delights with her upper body bare. It is usual to dance on the lap of the partner/customer.
At such a celebration, however, you should be aware that this dance is only for entertainment and is not an invitation to sex.
The goal is not sex, but excitement and play.
In some nightclubs it is also possible to get a lap dance from completely naked women. Of course there is an additional charge ;-)
To make the lap dance even more intimate, most clubs that offer this kind of thing have separate rooms where you can retreat.
latex
The classic material for sextyos - no plasticizers (phthalate-free) - perfect elasticity - easy to clean - hygienic - environmentally friendly
Love balls
This sex toy not only strengthens the pelvic floor muscles when worn but also provides a
lovely feeling.
Love balls are particularly recommended after pregnancy.
They ensure that
Postnatal exercise for the regression of the uterus, abdominal wall and
pelvic floor muscles.
They are inserted vaginally and usually consist of two balls which often have a metal ball in the
This inner ball provides intense stimulation with every movement, because
it hits the “wall” of the outer casing and is therefore sexually stimulating and makes you want to
More.
Pleasure balls have a retrieval loop, which allows for easy removal.
There are numerous versions of this sex toy.
Whether with vibration or without, whether with a smooth surface or ribbed or as individual balls (these are called Ben Wa Balls).
They can all be worn during anal intercourse and provide a “tighter” feeling.
There are also anal beads. These are often designed as a chain and when worn also provide
Vaginal intercourse for a “tight” feeling. Anal chains can be larger and
With more balls. These are then more for the fisting area and for the experienced
intended for wearers.
Please ensure that you keep the pleasure balls hygienically clean. Often
These sex toys are also worn in everyday life and are usually inserted for several hours. This
requires a bacteria-free surface to avoid diseases or inflammation.
Men are also increasingly wearing pleasure balls.
They stimulate the prostate and promote erection and potency.
Love swing
These sex toys are a very special way to try out different positions during sexual intercourse
to exercise.
Sex swings are available in different variations and with different load limits.
They are usually attached to the ceiling. There are special fastening devices for wooden
or concrete ceilings.
The maximum load weight is usually specified by the manufacturer.
This should definitely be taken into account when purchasing.
If you want to have fun on the swing with someone else, you should choose a heavy-duty swing.
Here the load limit can be as high as 250 kg.
The load can be increased by using a so-called partner spring.
This is simply attached between the swing and the hook in the ceiling. It gives way and relieves the pressure on the fastening hooks.
Which swing you choose depends on your requirements and the design.
There are swings with a seat loop, with seat hand and foot loops or only with hand and
Foot straps.
They are mostly made of sturdy nylon and can withstand a lot.
In addition, love swings ensure an imaginative love life. You can try out all imaginable
Try out positions and bring new “oomph” into the bedroom.
massage
The purpose of a massage is to increase blood flow to the skin and muscles from the outside, either manually or using equipment. This is a very easy way to achieve rest, recovery and relaxation.
Erotic massages
All massages that create a feeling of well-being can be called "erotic massage". Not only the massage itself, but also the environment and the use of scented oils can trigger an erotic effect. Therefore, normal massages that serve to relax cannot be compared with intimate massages.
Intimate massages
During an intimate massage, the masseuse or masseur aims to specifically stimulate the sexual organs. This is usually done by massaging with the hand.
In the erotic industry, so-called "massage parlors" offer these or similar massages as an "additional service".
Masturbator
The masturbator is a term in the modern erotic industry.
A masturbator is an artificial vagina into which men can masturbate.
They are very close to nature and promise a feeling as if you were not alone at all.
But of course, masturbators can also make lovemaking between two sexual partners even more erotic and wild.
Whether she spoils him with it or he satisfies himself is left to his imagination and desire.
The term masturbator often describes a man who enjoys masturbating.
Milf
The term MILF is an abbreviation for "Mother I would Like to Fuck".
When most teenagers/young adults hear the term MILF, they don’t just mean a mother, but generally older and more mature women who are very attractive and erotically appealing for their age.
A woman who is 35 years old and does not yet have a child can also be called a MILF by her admirer.
Other terms that follow the same principle already exist:
DILF - Dad I would Like to Fuck
SILF - Sister I would Like to Fuck
BILF - Brother I would Like to Fuck
GILF - Grandma I would Like to Fuck
Mongolian
The penis is rubbed between her buttocks. Most importantly: without penetration.
Golden shower
"Peaceful sparkling water" is not wine, but urine. This disguised term is common in the erotic industry and is usually used for extreme fetishes or preferences.
There are two types of playing with pee ("water games"):
1. The passive partner is peed on, feeling the warm and erotic sensation of urine on his skin.
2. The urine is drunk. The experience is said to be particularly tingling if the passive partner drinks the "champagne" directly from the vagina/penis. Of course, this can also be done from a normal glass or, to feel the golden shower game even more, from a champagne glass.
Sixty-nine
Sixty-nine is a sexual position in which both partners simultaneously pleasure each other orally by lying opposite each other and caressing each other's genitals with their tongue or lips.
Nylon
Nylons or nylon stockings are, among other things, an erotic item of clothing that has been made from the material "nylon" since the post-war period. It is relatively stretchy.
"Nylons" used to lead to competition on the streets. Every woman wanted to be the most beautiful and wore whatever made her legs shiny and erotic. Nylons with black seams were particularly attractive.
Nylons include high heels and suspenders, along with a lovely skirt and the erotic sensation is perfect.
nymphomania
Nymphomania is usually only referred to when there is an excessive desire for sex and frequent partner changes are a priority. The affected person is unable to commit to a partner, but is always looking to live out their sexual urges.
A nymphomaniac is a woman who has a higher desire for sexual intercourse.
In earlier times, the term was used to describe "excessive" sexual activity or "horniness" in women. A woman who had an excessive desire for sex and was labeled a nymphomaniac did not have it easy at that time.
The female counterpart is satyriasis, so nymphomania is just as common in men as it is in women.
Today the term is no longer used as often because it is sexist and derogatory.
One-night stand
A one-night stand is a non-binding, erotic adventure/sex for one night or less. It comes from English, although in English the term "casual sex" is often used instead of "one-night stand".
Historically, one night stand means a "one-time guest appearance".
In colloquial language, the person with whom you spent an erotic night is also called a one-night stand.
The abbreviation ONS has become more and more established on portals for sex contacts.
A one-night stand can be an affair, but it doesn't have to be, because in an affair, by definition, at least one of the two sexual partners has to be in a relationship, whereas in a one-night stand this is not the case.
In contrast to the one-night stand, the quickie refers exclusively to the very short duration of the sexual act and can also occur in a committed relationship.
Oral sex
The term oral sex is used when a man or woman uses their mouth to satisfy or caress their partner’s genitals, i.e. the vagina or penis.
These practices are also called blowjobs or fellatio (on the penis) or cunnilingus (on the vagina).
Other terms include:
Anilingus (the anus is caressed or kissed with the mouth or lips)
Sixty-nine (both partners pleasure each other orally at the same time by lying opposite each other)
Penis ring
What is the benefit of a penis ring?
Cock rings are placed around the penis and ensure that the blood in the cavernous bodies
collects.
This results in increased potency and ensures increased ejaculation.
This is a useful sex toy, especially for men with potency problems.
Dildodave recommends using a lubricant when putting it on so that the ring can slide over the
limb can be pulled.
It is very important to adhere to the wearing time. You should not wear penis rings for longer than 30 minutes
Leave it on, because wearing it for too long will cause the blood vessels to congest and
the penis can suffer damage due to the lack of blood flow.
There are numerous designs that provide additional stimulation.
For example, with a small vibration motor, which vibrates the penis, the testicles or when touching the
Stimulate the clitoris.
For beginners, adjustable penis rings are advantageous because they can be adjusted so that
they are not too tight. The experience you gain will show you how tight it should be.
Penis enlargement
There are different reasons why a man can/should wear a penis extender.
One reason is often a potency problem. In this case, a penis extension or a sleeve can help to provide the necessary stability.
Another reason for wearing a penis cover is size. Either it is too small or the partner wants to be filled up a little more or stimulated more intensely.
Then this sex toy is just the right thing.
There are different sizes, shapes and colors and the different materials offer every user a wide choice.
When choosing an extension, please note the inner length and the inner diameter.
To ensure that the penis sits firmly in the sheath and cannot slip back and forth, you should choose a soft and stretchy material that fits tightly.
For a penis sleeve to stay securely in place, designs with so-called
Holding loops/eyelets, which are pulled over the testicles and thus ensure a secure
application.
There are also versions without a strap.
These are pulled over the penis like a condom. You should also make sure that the penis sheath fits tightly so that it does not "slip off" during intercourse.
When using penis extensions, dildodave also recommends a lubricant.
When choosing a lubricant, you should definitely pay attention to the material compatibility.
Cleaning is done classically with water and mild soap or a sex toy cleaner.
Prostate stimulation
Men can also be sexually satisfied by their partner in a completely different way. Through direct stimulation of the prostate. With one hand the prostate, with the other the penis. The orgasm will be more intense and pleasurable than ever before, but still a little confusing, as it is a new experience that newbies have to get used to.
Some women also find it difficult to stimulate their partner's prostate. Often they don't even know where it is or are simply hesitant about it.
Queening
The term queening (facesitting) is a fetish in which the woman sits on the face of the man/slave, naked or wearing panties.
The special attraction for men is that the woman has control over her breathing. If the airways are blocked by the vagina or buttocks, not only can oral sex take place, but there is also a risk of suffocation.
There are now various tools that help to make this sensation even more exciting. The queening chair and the smoothering box, for example, are specially made for this fetish. Either only the slave's face is exposed or, in the case of the queening chair, the dominatrix's bottom is exposed.
Quickie
The word quickie comes from the English word quick, which translated into German means fast.
This is about quick, no-strings-attached sex. Foreplay, tenderness or feelings have no place in a quickie; it's just about being satisfied.
The quickie is just as popular with couples as it is with short-term sexual acquaintances.
Riding position
In the cowgirl position, the woman squats on the man who lies on his back.
This position is especially nice for women because they can control the speed and hardness themselves.
Since the woman is "riding" on him, this position is called the rider position.
Lingerie
It wasn't long ago that "sexy lingerie" was a derogatory term, a term that placed erotic clothing in the realm of cheap industries.
Fortunately, this attitude has changed in recent years.
Erotic clothing is a real pleasure for those who have already tried it and value it. Men and women naturally react very strongly to erotic clothing, although this varies from individual to individual.
Erotic clothing emphasizes and draws the viewer's attention to precisely those areas of the body that inspire, please and excite them. A beautiful bra or a nice top covers the woman's breasts and emphasizes her wonderful curves. You can let your imagination run wild.
Women and men alike find it particularly appealing when erotic clothing tempts them to "unpack" it, like a long-awaited gift. Imagine feeling and exploring his/her naked skin with kisses, while some of it is still covered under sexy underwear and safe from your lips. As you make love, you reveal more and more of him or her, reveal the wonderful places and start again with fingers and/or kisses on your partner's interesting places.
Erotic clothing is most arousing when both partners consciously engage in it and start a game with each other.
An important plus point is that erotic clothing is not underwear that we wear in everyday life. If he or she wears erotic clothing, it is like a white dress to a wedding or an evening dress or tuxedo to a cozy dinner. It shows the other person: "I want to please you, look at me."
People are very different and so are their tastes and special preferences when it comes to erotic clothing. Luckily, we have a large range where everyone can find the right thing, so you can give your sweetheart a very special gift.
Russian
The safest option in terms of contraception. A lot of oil is involved here. The partner's anus is massaged with the finger (without penetration). On the other hand, the penis is often rubbed between the partner's oiled thighs.
Swedish
Swedish... no, this is not about blondes or anything like that.
She pulls back his foreskin so that the glans is exposed. Then she holds his penis and lets him do it to her.
silicone
The premium material for sex toys - odorless - free from plasticizers (phthalate-free) - UV and heat resistant - anti-allergenic - easy to clean - hygienic - adapts well to body temperature - silicone is not compatible with silicone. Therefore, please do not use silicone lubricant, but rather use water-based lubricant.
Spanish
Also known as breast sex or titjob, he rubs his penis between the woman's breasts until he comes.
The woman can control the friction by pressing her breasts together.
Spanish with recording. The penis is pushed so far that it also goes into the mouth.
Strap On
This sex toy is available in two basic versions:
Hollow or solid material.
Women can wear both variants, whereas men logically only wear hollow strap-ons, or
also called strap-on dildos.
These act like a penis extension and ensure that it fills YOU sufficiently.
There are strap-on dildos in all imaginable shapes, colors and sizes. With and without vibration,
up to the double strap-on for simultaneous anal and vaginal satisfaction.
Your preference decides here.
A strap-on made of solid material is usually chosen by women who either want to please their partner or their
want to satisfy your partner vaginally or anally.
To stimulate a man’s prostate with a strap-on, you should have a slightly
Choose a strap-on dildo that is curved at the top. This way, his G-spot can be reached easily.
We generally recommend using a lubricant during anal sex.
Especially for beginners it makes sense to use a relaxing lubricant.
These have the function of relaxing the sphincter and counteracting any possible cramping during penetration.
A hollow strap-on dildo can also help men with potency problems to add a little excitement to
bedroom. To choose the right one, usually in a realistic form, you should
Make sure you choose the right size. The inner diameter can vary greatly and
should be chosen to fit your penis so that a perfect fit is guaranteed and both
get something out of the penetration.
This sex toy is usually cleaned with a sex toy cleaner or with water and mild
Soap.
Swing
Swinging means swapping partners, where couples meet in swinger clubs and swap partners.
When couples meet, it usually goes like this:
The partners are swapped, the man gets someone else's wife and the woman gets someone else's husband.
Most of the time, sexual intercourse takes place in specially designated rooms so that they can have sex together, i.e. four or more people (group sex).
Thai
Both partners oil their entire bodies. She now slides and glides over his with her erotic body, satisfying him. Until the happy ending...
TPE
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Dry sex
Dry sex is a sexual act in which the genitals do not touch and no bodily fluids are exchanged. Both partners remain clothed; underwear is sufficient. The partners rub their genitals against each other through their clothing while the tension builds when neither of them is allowed to climax.
Almost 50 years ago, dry sex was often used by younger couples, but today it is just a game of stimulation.
submission
The term “submission” comes from the BDSM scene.
During lovemaking, partners, especially women, like to play with being subjugated. Recently, women have also started to enjoy playfully subjugating men. It is clear to everyone involved that they are playing a game with each other that is only played for the duration of the lovemaking.
Role play takes things a step further. Here the submissive dreams of being in the role of irresponsibly giving up control, letting others decide and following instructions.
For example, the man could slip into a woman's dress, allow himself to be beaten, receive anal satisfaction or lick a woman's feet.
Fornication
The term “fornication” refers to extramarital sexual intercourse (affairs). The word is applied to any type of sexual intercourse outside of marriage.
In technical terms, “fornication” usually simply means “sexual intercourse,” so “indecent acts” are all sexual contact.
In older language, homosexuality was usually referred to as “unnatural fornication.” However, the term is outdated.
vinyl
Vinyl is an amorphous thermoplastic. Its advantage is its durability. Sunlight does not decompose it, its properties are not affected. Water (even salty sea water) and air cannot destroy it. The consistency is soft on the outside and hard on the inside.
foreplay
Foreplay is the "warm-up phase" before actual sexual intercourse.
In old textbooks about sex, foreplay has a special meaning. Foreplay was seen as an appetizer before the main course. After the appetizer there is dessert, the afterplay. This example was intended to teach men that women do not want to/cannot have sex immediately. They need foreplay first to "warm up".
Warming up includes kissing and caressing or even oral sex.
White Studio
The "White Studio" comes from the porn industry and refers to a room in which role plays such as doctor eroticism are practiced.
In this role play, the sex partners dress up as a doctor and a patient.
Medical examinations are reenacted and then sexual acts take place.
Chastise
Castigation is common in role-playing games and BDSM relationships, where people are humiliated or disciplined through beatings and other physical punishments.
Different types of punishments are used, reminiscent of punishments from earlier times when students and staff were disciplined with beatings.
Minor offenses are punished with slaps in the face.
The slap with the flat hand is very erotic simply because of the skin contact.
Even harsher punishments with rods, straps or canes were commonplace back then. Almost anything that could be laid hands on could be used for beating. Wooden spoons or slippers were also used. At school, there were also beatings with a ruler on outstretched hands and on the bottom.
Hermaphrodite
Hermaphrodites are people who do not have clear sexual characteristics.
They have both female and male sexual organs.
