Sex Toys For Couples

💞 Sex toys for couples – rediscover pleasure together

Together it is simply more fun: in this collection you will find toys and games that bring fresh air into your love life – from a first shared toy to a role-play adventure. At dildodave.de you order discreetly and quickly.

✨ What awaits you here

• Couples vibrators – worn during sex, stimulating both of you at once
• Erotic games – from playful dice games to question games for foreplay
• Strap-ons – for swapping roles and new perspectives
• Toys with a remote – when one of you takes control
• Bondage & restraints – cuffs, ties and blindfolds for a first role swap
• Cock rings – vibrating models work for both of you, not just the wearer
• Massage toys – the low-key way in, when a toy would still be a step too far

🎽 Strap-on – the harness decides, not the dildo

With a strap-on, almost everyone looks at the dildo and picks up the harness as an afterthought. It is the other way round: a harness that slips ruins the session, one that sits well is what makes it work at all. Models with two thigh straps hold far better than the simple brief cut, but they need a little time to adjust. And the O-ring has to match the base of the dildo – too large and the dildo tips, too small and it will not go in at all.

The second sticking point: with a classic strap-on the person wearing it feels very little. To change that, look for a harness with a bullet pocket or a model with an internal part. Otherwise it stays one-sided – which is fine when you both know that in advance, and disappointing when you do not.

• ✅ Two thigh straps rather than a brief cut – far more stable in motion
• ✅ Match O-ring and dildo base – otherwise it tips or jams
• ✅ A bullet pocket or internal part if both of you should feel something
• ✅ Try it on and adjust it beforehand, not in the moment itself

🧼 One toy, two people – the hygiene rule

As soon as a toy passes between two people, the usual rule applies: put a condom on it and change it when you swap. That is not over-caution – pathogens survive on the surface long enough. The order matters just as much: anything that has been used anally never goes on vaginally without cleaning or a fresh condom. And porous materials like TPE can never be made fully germ-free – for shared toys, silicone, glass or metal is the better choice.

Lubricant stays simple: water-based suits every material and works with condoms. Gel containing silicone attacks silicone toys, oil-based gel makes latex porous.

💡 Tips for adventures together

• Talk openly – agree on wishes and limits beforehand
• Choose together – the anticipation starts while you are browsing
• Lubricant within reach – it makes every toy more comfortable
• Enjoy the foreplay – toys do not replace closeness, they amplify it

❓ Frequently asked questions

What is a good first toy for two?

A couples vibrator or a vibrating cock ring. Both are worn during sex, so they change nothing about how things go – they simply add something on top.

Our couples vibrator keeps slipping – is that normal?

It is the most common complaint and it comes down to anatomy. Not every C-shape suits every couple. Models with a flexible arm or an adjustable angle sit far more reliably.

How do we bring it up without it getting awkward?

Most easily outside the bedroom and with no particular occasion. Browsing together takes a lot of pressure out of it, because the choice becomes a shared decision rather than one person's suggestion.

Do we have to clean the toy every time we swap?

Yes – or use a fresh condom. Going from anal to vaginal in particular is not a recommendation but a rule.

Does the person wearing the strap-on feel anything?

With a classic model, barely. With a harness that has a bullet pocket, or a model with an internal part, that changes.

How is it delivered?

In neutral packaging that gives no clue as to the contents, and the same applies to the debit on your bank statement. Shipping within Germany is free, with no minimum order value.

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