Strap-Ons

🔗 Strap-ons for New Couple Experiences

Strap-on dildos open up exciting possibilities for shared play. The adjustable strap sits around the hip or thigh, while the dildo provides stimulation. There are sets with a permanently attached dildo as well as harnesses with an O-ring, into which you can insert various dildos. It is precisely this interchangeability that makes a harness the most flexible long-term solution: one strap, many attachments.

✨ What variations are there?

• Classic strap-ons– strap plus interchangeable dildo for maximum flexibility
• Strapless models– worn without a strap; an internal part is held by the wearer and stimulates them at the same time
• Double variations– stimulate both partners simultaneously, similar to double dildos
• Hollow strap-ons– with a hollow attachment, also suitable for erection problems
• Vibrating sets– with a motor in the dildo or in the strap plate

🎽 Harness types compared

• Two-strap harness– the straps run around the waist and thigh. Very stable, leaves the crotch free.
• Three-strap harness– additional middle strap, particularly secure fit for vigorous movements.
• Slip harness– looks like briefs, is quick to put on and beginner-friendly.
• Thigh harness– worn on the leg and allows for completely different positions.

📏 Pay attention to the size

Two measurements are important: the waist or hip circumference for the strap and the O-ring diameter for the dildo. The ring should be slightly smaller than the widest point of the dildo so that it holds securely. Many harnesses come with several ring sizes – this is worthwhile if you want to add more dildos later. Also, make sure to choose a dildo with a wide base or suction cup, otherwise it will slip through the ring.

💡 How to get started

For beginners, slender, realistic or classic dildosare particularly suitable. Put on the strap together beforehand and check the fit while standing and in motion – readjusting is much more comfortable than doing it mid-session. Always use enough lubricantand gradually increase speed and depth together. For anal play, it is also important to use thick anal lubricantand slowly increase intensity.

After play, clean the strap and dildo separately – the latter with sex toy cleaner. Tips on how to put it on and choose the right size can be found in the guide Using Strap-On Dildos.