The position helps determine who feels what – angle, depth, closeness, control. Bringing variety to the bedroom not only creates new sensations but often finally hits the right spots. In this guide, you'll get the best sex positions for every purpose – from beginner-friendly to Kama Sutra – and learn how cushions, swings, and sex furniture make positions possible that would otherwise be strenuous.
🧭 Why change positions at all?
- Different angles stimulate different zones (G-spot, prostate, clitoris).
- More intimacy or more control – depending on mood and moment.
- Variety keeps the excitement alive, especially in long-term relationships (see reigniting the spark).
🌱 Positions for beginners
- Missionary: lots of eye contact and closeness; a cushion under the pelvis noticeably changes the angle.
- Spooning: relaxed, deep, and ideal for simultaneously stimulating the clitoris.
- Cowgirl (or reverse cowgirl): the person on top controls pace and depth – perfect for control.
🌊 Positions for deep penetration
Doggy style and elevated pelvic positions allow for particularly deep penetration. A wedge pillow like the inflatable Luv-Log sex cushion comfortably elevates the pelvis, making deep angles effortless – without cramped muscles.
🌸 Positions for clitoral stimulation
When riding or in the "Coital Alignment" variation of missionary (pelvis higher, body slightly forward), the pubic bone rubs directly against the clitoris. Combined with a flat lay-on vibrator, it becomes especially intense.
🎯 Positions for the G-spot
Positions with a forward-facing angle (spooning, doggy with lowered upper body) hit the G-spot well. Those who want to practice specifically can find basics in the Squirting Guide.
🪑 Gentle on joints & relaxed
Not every position has to be acrobatic. Sitting, lying, or leaning makes many things easier – and with positioning aids, the pleasure lasts longer because nothing falls asleep or cramps up.
🪝 More possibilities with aids
- Sex cushions/wedges – lift and stabilize, e.g., the Luv-Log sex cushion.
- Love swings – make the body weightless: the Fantasy Deluxe Door Swing or the Spinning Fantasy Love Swing. More in the Love Swing Guide.
- Sex furniture – the Sex Furniture Door Swing and other ideas in the Sex Furniture Guide.
You can find the entire selection in the Sex Furniture Collection.
📖 Kama Sutra Classics
The Kama Sutra is more than exotic contortions – it's about mindfulness, closeness, and pleasure. Many classics are variations of missionary, spooning, and cowgirl with altered angles. Those who like a slow, conscious approach will find what they're looking for in the Tantra Sex Guide.
💬 Practical tips
- Communication: state what feels good – see Communication in Bed.
- Lube makes every position more comfortable.
- Don't forget foreplay – the Foreplay Guide helps.
❓ Frequently Asked Questions
Which position is best for female orgasm?
Often the one in which the clitoris is also stimulated – cowgirl or missionary with elevated pelvis, often combined with a lay-on vibrator.
How do I hit the G-spot better?
Point the angle forward (spooning, doggy with lowered upper body) and use a cushion to elevate the pelvis.
Do I need special furniture?
No – a cushion is enough to start. Swings and sex furniture significantly expand the possibilities, but are not a must.
✅ Conclusion
There is no perfect position – but there is the perfect one for this moment. Experiment, talk about it, and use aids where they improve angles and endurance. This way, routine quickly becomes an adventure again.
🛍️ Discover matching products:
- All sex furniture & positioning aids
- Luv-Log Sex Cushion
- Fantasy Deluxe Door Swing
- Spinning Fantasy Love Swing
- Sex Furniture Door Swing
🛒 Matching products in our shop
Want to browse straight away? Everything this article is about:
- Love swings – for door or ceiling
- Erotic Furniture/Cushions – wipeable and non-slip

