A threesome: tips for an exciting and fulfilling experience
Sex with two people is exciting enough, but for many couples the idea of a threesome can be even more tempting. You can let your imagination run wild - whether it's with two men and one woman or vice versa. But before embarking on this adventure, there are a few important things to consider, especially if you're in a relationship.
Communication is key
Before having a threesome, it is essential to talk openly with your partner about your wishes, ideas and limits. It is important that both partners have the same idea of the experience. You should clarify what is allowed and what is taboo. Ask yourself: "Can I even share my partner in such an intimate affair? Am I ready to see my partner having fun with another person?"
Open communication prevents misunderstandings and helps to create a healthy and respectful atmosphere. Don't do something that makes you feel uncomfortable just to do your partner a favor - otherwise it could lead to problems later on.
Living out fantasies – without shame
It's not just men who dream of a threesome. Women also often want to live out their fantasies with another person. However, inhibitions or shame often stand in the way of trying out these desires in real life. But if you have decided to experience a threesome, it is important to discuss exactly who you want to do it with.
The third person should also be included in the conversation. Discuss your rules and make sure that everyone involved sticks to the agreed boundaries.
Your partner remains number one
During a threesome, your partner should always come first. Never lose sight of this, otherwise a supposedly exciting experience can quickly turn into a relationship crisis. It is normal that not everyone is always active at the same time. Sometimes there are two people who are getting intimate with each other while the third person watches or holds back. Here it is important not to bring jealousy into play, but to enjoy the moment.
If you notice that the other two are having intense fun, you can observe the situation as a third person, get involved or become active yourself - for example by touching, kissing or even using sex toys to intensify the experience for everyone.
Creative ideas for the threesome
To relax and prepare for the threesome, sensual activities like taking a bath together in the jacuzzi or shower can make things easier. Water can help to release inhibitions and create a tingling atmosphere. Start by touching, soaping or massaging each other to slowly build up the tension.
Special board or card games can also help to lighten the mood and slowly bring you closer to the actual act.
The search for the right person
Finding a suitable third party for a threesome can be challenging. Some couples consider asking someone from their circle of friends, while others prefer to use special Internet portals that have been developed for this purpose. If you meet a stranger online, you should definitely make sure you use contraception to minimize any potential risks.
What happens next?
After a threesome, you should reflect together: "What's next? How do we want to behave towards the third person?" Some couples prefer not to maintain contact with the third person, while others consider another meeting or even look for a new person to live out their preferences again.
No matter what you decide, there is no shame if the threesome doesn't go the way you imagined. If "she" doesn't feel like it or "he" doesn't get high - that's completely normal. The important thing is that you don't force yourself to do anything and always keep your mind on the matter at hand.
Conclusion A threesome can be an exciting and rewarding experience for couples if it is well thought out and communicated. Take the time to communicate with your partner and establish your rules. With the right preparation and an open mind, a threesome can be an unforgettable experience that may even strengthen your relationship.
