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💪 Sir Richards – Bicep Bender fetish toy

From Sir Richards we currently carry one item: the Bicep Bender fetish toy with stainless steel, phthalate-free. The full selection is under bondage and restraints.

🎯 Why the upper arms

Most restraints grip at the wrists. At the upper arm the effect is different: the hands stay free, movement is restricted anyway. For scenes where someone should stay capable of acting but give up control, that is the more interesting approach.

🔩 Fabric with stainless steel

Wide webbing straps spread the pull over a surface instead of cutting in at a point – unlike rigid metal cuffs. The stainless steel rings give the whole thing stability and adjust, so the fit can be changed at any time.

How tight may it sit?

Tight enough that two fingers fit between the strap and the arm. At the upper arm that applies particularly, because nerves and blood vessels run close beneath the surface. If the hands go cold, tingly or pale, the restraint comes off immediately.

How long should a tied-up session last?

A quarter of an hour to start with. More important than the clock is the position: arms behind the back load the shoulders considerably more than arms in front. Change the posture before anything goes to sleep.

What needs discussing beforehand?

A safeword that will not come up by accident during play, and the question of what explicitly must not happen. If a gag is involved as well, you need a signal without words. How to start safely is set out in our BDSM guide for beginners.

What has to be within reach?

A pair of blunt scissors. With fabric restraints and metal rings, releasing is quick, but in an emergency you do not want to be searching. And: whoever ties stays in the room – nobody is left tied up alone.

How do I know it is too tight?

By three signs: numbness, pale or bluish skin, and a pulling that does not change with the position. Any one of them means release, not readjust. Afterwards move the arm slowly until the feeling comes back.

How do I clean the set?

Fabric by hand with lukewarm water and mild soap, then dried flat; wipe the metal parts dry afterwards. Check the seams from time to time – frayed webbing will not hold at the moment it matters.

What goes with it?

Wrist restraints, blindfolds and collars combine well. The selection is under handcuffs, the whole area under BDSM and under fetish sex toys.

Is this suitable for beginners?

With agreements in place, yes. An upper-arm restraint is less drastic than a fixture to the bed, because the person stays mobile. Anyone tying someone up for the first time still starts short and watches how it lands.

Does it fit every arm?

Adjustable rings cover a broad range. What counts is not the size given but the two-finger rule – that applies to slim and to strong upper arms alike.

What belongs after the scene?

Releasing, moving the arms slowly, something to drink and a blanket. The part afterwards is often underrated but belongs to it – particularly when a scene has been intense.

Does stainless steel rust?

Not in normal use, but moisture likes to sit at the joint between metal and fabric. Wipe the rings dry after cleaning and the set stays as good as new for years.

How is it delivered?

Neutrally and discreetly. We ship in an unprinted box with no reference to the contents, and the sender details give nothing away either. Within Germany we deliver free of shipping costs, with no minimum order value.