Soft and Tender - Massage Milk

🤍 Soft and Tender – massage milk in two sizes

Soft and Tender stands here for oil-based massage milk, available as a handy 200 ml bottle and as a 5 litre canister. Both contain the same product – the only difference is the quantity. More oils, candles and lotions are listed under massage products.

⚠️ The most important note first

Massage milk contains oil – and oil destroys latex. That applies not only to condoms but to latex gloves and dental dams as well. If a condom comes into play later in the evening, wash the treated areas thoroughly first. Massage milk is not intended as a lubricant either – for that you take a water-based lubricant.

🛢️ When is the 5 litre canister worth it?

Full-body massages use up considerably more product than most people expect. If you regularly work on backs, legs and arms, the bulk size is cheaper and you simply decant a small bottle for working with. For occasional use the 200 ml is perfectly adequate.

How much massage milk do I need?

About a tablespoon covers a back. Warm the milk in your own hands first rather than pouring it cold onto the skin – it is more pleasant and you spread it more evenly. You can always add more once your hands stop gliding.

Should I test it beforehand?

Yes. Put a drop in the crook of your elbow and wait a few hours before working over a large area. That goes double for sensitive skin or known allergies. If you get redness or itching, rinse the spot with lukewarm water.

Is it a problem on bed linen?

Oil leaves marks, and they do not always come out of pale cotton completely. Put a dark towel or a sheet underneath – it saves you trouble afterwards and lets you relax during the massage instead of keeping watch.

Can the milk be used in the intimate area?

It is intended as body care for the skin, not for mucous membranes. Stay on the back, shoulders, arms and legs. For the intimate area there are more suitable products under intimate hygiene.

How do I start a massage?

A warm room, dimmed light and enough time – that is half the work done. Begin with broad, calm strokes and only then work into individual areas. Specific grips and sequences are described in our guide to erotic massage.

How do I store the bulk size?

Cool, dark and firmly closed. Decant a small bottle for everyday use instead of opening the canister every time – that way less air reaches the supply and the milk stays fresh for longer.

What else goes with a massage?

Massage candles and warming oils set different stimuli than a milk does. An overview of the differences is in our article on massage oils and massage candles.

Does the milk absorb or stay on the skin?

A massage milk is thinner than a pure oil and therefore absorbs better, without your hands going dry straight away. A light film still remains – that is intentional, because without it the strokes start to drag. If you want to go straight to bed afterwards, take a quick shower.

Can I use the milk on my own?

Yes. For the neck, shoulders, calves and feet you do not need anyone else – those are precisely the areas you can reach well yourself. A self-massage in the evening is also one of the simplest ways to get a feel for your own body again.

How is it delivered?

Neutrally and discreetly. We ship in an unprinted box with no reference to the contents, and the sender details give nothing away either. Within Germany we deliver free of shipping costs, with no minimum order value.