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Begme – 20 fetish accessories in black and red 🖤

Begme runs two lines with an identical structure: the Black Edition and the Red Edition. Together they are 20 items – four restraint sets, four collars, two each of handcuffs, masks, nipple clamps, paddles and whips, plus one gag and one flogger. 14 of them are vegan leather.

The Black Edition 🌑

In vegan leather come the collar, the paddle, the flogger, the ball gag, the blindfold mask, the hogtie set and the ankle cuffs. Lined with neoprene are the premium handcuffs and the collar with nipple clamps; made of stainless steel and aluminium are the premium nipple clamps – see BDSM and fetish collars.

The Red Edition ❤️

The same shapes in red: the collar, the paddle, the leather whip and the deluxe whip, the blindfold mask, the hogtie set and the ankle cuffs. Lined with neoprene are the premium handcuffs and the collar with nipple clamps; made of metal are the nipple clips with a chain – see handcuffs, whips and paddles and nipple clamps.

What is the neoprene lining for?

Because cuffs and collars get worn for longer than a few minutes. Bare leather chafes at the edges; a layer of neoprene underneath spreads the pressure. That changes nothing about the basic rule: a finger has to fit between cuff and skin, and at any numbness, tingling or cold hands it comes off at once.

How do you start safely?

With one word that ends everything immediately, and with scissors within reach. The key to the handcuffs stays to hand, and nobody is ever left tied up alone. The ball gag makes speaking impossible – agree on a hand signal beforehand, or give the restrained person something to hold that they can drop. More in the BDSM guide for beginners.

What should you watch with the paddle and the flogger?

Buttocks and thighs, nowhere else. Kidneys, spine, tailbone and joints stay off limits. A paddle lands flat and gets intense quickly; a flogger spreads the strike across many falls and is easier to meter – for a start it is the simpler choice. Begin light and build slowly. See whips and paddles.

How long may nipple clamps stay on?

Not long. Ten to fifteen minutes is plenty at first, and taking them off hurts more than putting them on, because the blood comes back. So release them slowly and keep the spot warm afterwards. At any numbness or discolouration they come off at once. More in the article on nipple clamps.

What measurements are on file?

None for any of the 20 items – with collars and cuffs that is the actual question, because whether they fit depends on it. The adjustment ranges are on each product page; the collection data does not give them.

How is it cared for?

Vegan leather and neoprene are only wiped with a damp cloth and left to air-dry, never soaked and never put in the machine. Metal parts are cleaned after contact with skin or body fluid and stored dry. Everything together belongs somewhere dry and out of direct sunlight. See sex toy cleaner.

How is it delivered?

Neutrally and discreetly. We ship in a plain box with no reference to the contents, and the sender details give nothing away either. Within Germany, delivery is free of shipping costs with no minimum order value.